Dating is time consuming, in both good and bad ways sometimes. It’s great when you are investing time getting to know the right person– asking the right questions to determine whether he’s date worthy or not.
It’s not so great when you are consumed dating someone that is a waste of your time because he either doesn’t have the same goals, isn’t opening up to you or the spark just isn’t there.
I tell clients every day to make the best use of your time by asking pre-qualifying questions when you date.
Here are 3 important questions to always ask a man you’re dating…
- What do you do for work? Don’t assume that just because he’s an electrician, he’s not successful. Or just because he’s a lawyer, he has lots of money! Most of the time men don’t disclose their finances right off the bat. Instead, ask about his life and see what he shares in terms of his lifestyle. Pay attention to his spending and saving habits. He might work for one company, be retired, or maybe have his foot in several businesses. One of my clients was once on the phone with a man she was interested in when he asked her to “hold for a moment while he poured some wine…” She was confused and later learned he owned a winery! So, you just never know.
- What’s your family like or what are your family goals? Ask your date about his family goals. Does he want more children or already have them? Ask about his children to learn more about him. He loves them more than anything in the world I’m sure, so you need to get to know them through conversations as you date. You also need to make sure their ages align with what you are looking for in your life. Are you wanting kids in the diaper phase again? Do you see yourself at soccer or college football games? Or maybe you’re closer to the grandparent stage of life!
- What have your past relationships been like and what do you want in the future? Ask about his last relationship and whether it ended well with his ex. Has he ever been married? Why or why not? These are fair game questions you’ll want to ask, but also be prepared to answer yourself. Based on his answers, you can then ask him if he wants a long-term relationship. Make sure his relationship goals match up with yours. Be confident and courageously ask the questions, even if it’s hard.
There’s no right or wrong time to ask these questions, but don’t waste time avoiding them either. Be prepared early on so when you do ask them, you feel confident. Relax, don’t pressure him and he’ll be more likely to open up to you.
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xo,
Jaki
