The key to any successful relationship is communication. If you ever feel uncomfortable or awkward asking a guy relationship questions, it’s a sign that it’s probably not a good idea to date him. You should never do anything with a man that you can’t openly talk about, or never start a relationship with a guy you don’t feel comfortable communicating with.
Before you ever get serious, there are important questions to ask. Questions that will help you build trust. If you can’t ask these three questions, or don’t get clear answers, move on!
#1 . What do you want from a relationship?
Make sure the man you are interested in wants the same thing you do. Does he want to casually date you, or is he looking for a serious, long-term relationship? Either are fine, as long as what he wants aligns with what you want. And remember, ultimately what he wants is not going to change, no matter how hard you try. It’s best to find someone who wants the same things as you right off the bat.
#2. Tell me about your last relationship…
When asking about his last relationship, leave it open ended. Let him tell you the details he feels comfortable with. Sure, you can ask questions like, “why did your last relationship end?” or “have you moved on and are you ready to date again?” etc. He should be willing and able to explain what happened in his last relationship and why it didn’t work. If he jumps right into answers such as: “I hate my ex,” “I don’t know why we broke up,” or refuses to talk about it at all, these are red flags.
It’s important to remember that communication is a two-way road. So, when he opens up to you, you need to be able to open up about your past relationships to him as well. Don’t ever ask a question you are not able to answer yourself.
#3. What makes you happy?
This question should provoke a positive response. He should be excited to share what he is passionate about! And the things that make him happy should be similar to things that bring you happiness. Sure, you can have different hobbies and interests, but you want to be able to relate and to be passionate about some of the same things as well.
When a man opens up and shares with you what he loves, make sure you pay attention and engage with him. When you find common shared interests, you will bond as a couple and the relationship will only grow. Make sure he takes the time to question, find out about and learn about your passions as well.
These three questions are important questions to ask before building a relationship with someone. Ask yourself these questions first, and make sure you are comfortable opening up the way you expect him to. You will be surprised how much you will learn about each other from asking these and opening up with honest responses yourself!
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