You should only date men who lift you up, build your self-esteem, and make you a better person. Period.
If you are constantly feeling like he is jealous, is intimidating you, or making you feel like you need to change who you are, then he is not who you want to build a relationship with.
Here are 4 red flags you’re dating a jealous man…
1. Feeling the need to change yourself. If you feel you are dimming your own light to make him feel better about himself, this is a red flag. Don’t ever change who you are, and especially don’t dim your light to make him feel brighter and happier.
2. Constant overexplaining. You shouldn’t be questioned about every situation and you definitely shouldn’t find yourself constantly overexplaining unnecessary things. There should be a deep level of trust and understanding between both parties, so you don’t have to explain yourself when it’s not necessary.
3. Comparison. You shouldn’t be comparing yourself to other people, and he shouldn’t be comparing you to anyone either. No ex, no visionary “dream” woman, no one! He should love you for who you are.
4. Too Nosy. A tell-tale sign of a jealous man is one that is nosy. A man who digs through your things out of suspicion and wants in on every detail of your life is jealous. You deserve your privacy and deserve to be trusted when you are dating someone.
If you find that you are dating a jealous man, then here’s my advice and solution for you today: vote with your feet and leave the relationship!
