Dating as a woman in your 40s or 50s isn’t the same as dating as a teenager—and thank God for that, right? But getting back in the game can be a little daunting and even seems like work sometimes. Or, if you’re stuck in a major dating rut, it can feel like a hopeless dead-end street.
But trust me when I say that dating can be fun! Really! If you’re searching for your Soulmate, enjoy it. Here are five easy tips to get you out there and start having fun dating.
Step 1 — Rediscover Your Mojo
You are only going to attract a man who loves you as much as you love yourself, so now’s the time to find out what makes you so special.
Use this mantra on a regular basis to start programming yourself: “I love Myself, I love Myself, I love Myself.” And make a list of 3 things you love about you. It might be tempting to skip this or label it as cheesy, but I can promise you, self-love is HOT.
The best gift you can give yourself is to stop comparing yourself to others and learn to love everything about you. Live as the awesome woman you are today. It makes you irresistible!
Step 2 — Learn How to Flirt
Get your game on, girl! It’s fun to flirt. Whether you are meeting men online or in the real world, flirting is the best way to get a man’s attention.
Online, you can flirt by favoring men. In real life, smile and make eye contact for at least five seconds. This lets a man know you’re interested in him, and it’s safe to approach you.
Step 3 — Have Three Dating Outfits In Your Closet
You don’t want to scavenge through your closet and come out with nothing to wear one hour before you’re supposed to meet a man for a coffee date.
Choose styles that bring out the feminine side of you that men love so much. My husband loves a pop of color, but stay away from patterns, unless they are subtle! Clothes that are too busy can draw the eye away from your winning smile and the deep-soul connection of eye contact.
Step 4 — Deliberately Date
A man may not be your next mate, but he can be a great date.
Plus, he can make a great friend who might be perfect for that wedding or party you don’t want to attend alone. Who doesn’t want a Saturday night out where he buys the tickets and you pick up the popcorn?
Go on dates with men to meet someone new and interesting. At the same time, have fun enjoying male companionship while you’re still out there looking for Mr. Right.
Step 5 — Use The Magic Words Men Love To Hear: “I need your help.”
This makes a man feel both important and needed. Men want to make you happy, so give him an opportunity.
If you want a man to make you happy, consider using these four magic words, “I need your help.” Then watch how this changes the way the men in your life respond to you. It works every time!
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