It’s the time of year when we are all bursting at the seams to be outside, to be with our girlfriends having a glass of wine on the patio, and enjoying some sunshine.
There’s something magical about the spring awakening, but don’t miss the blessing of this winter incubation period! Winter is both a time to rest AND a time to prepare to bloom and grow and shine!
I’ve been writing to you a lot about confidence and making sure that the relationship we build with ourselves is a priority in our lives. Why?
Two reasons. The first is obvious. Self-love is the most important thing you can do for your health and well-being. It’s the cornerstone of every good decision you make yourself.
The second, bonus side-effect is that men LOVE a confident woman.
A confident woman knows how to flirt. A confident woman is totally comfortable giving a man that five second smile and lingering next to him just a little bit longer. These small acts of sass can really make you a man magnet, and I promise you that once one man notices you, the rest seem to fall in line behind!
You don’t have to go on a date every day, and you don’t have to fall head over heels for every man that you meet. What I’m talking about is getting comfortable with that extra eye contact, with smiling FIRST. If you practice being a person who shows interest in those around you, you will be the person who others want to get to know.
I’m the kind of girl who loves to give a gift; I get more of a kick out of it than actually getting gifts – well, most of the time! Think of these little extras as your gifts to other people, and start to see how good it makes you feel…you will begin to radiate with the energy that you are giving out– a definite way to attract love in!
Too often these days, people are hesitant to be friendly! I get it. We live in a world where we have to be careful. But there is still so much beauty and possibility. So smile first, make eye contact, hold the door. You will find that men are surprised by these little gifts, enough to wake up and take notice!
You’ll get what you give.
So throw a little light, a little generosity and a little attention around, and watch how fast it comes back to you!
Much love,
Jaki
