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4 Of My BEST Tips for Captivating His Interest! | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· June 1, 2021 

4 Of My BEST Tips for Captivating His Interest!

As Covid-related restrictions slowly but surely start to fall away, your thoughts might be turning towards going out again and meeting people face to face. But maybe those thoughts are mixed with a sense of uneasiness or even panic, if your flirting skills have gotten rusty over the last year (or were not that strong to begin with!). 

Don’t worry! I’ve got you covered with a few helpful reminders. Take a look at these tips for waking up your feminine energy and getting back on the dating scene! 

  • After the past year, in-person eye contact will be simply amazing! If you make meaningful, prolonged eye contact with a man, you’ll convey both attraction and confidence! Hold your head high and don’t be afraid to catch his eye! He will be both thrilled and flattered by the attention. 
  • You don’t have to be tongue tied! When in doubt, just ask him a question about himself. Everyone wants to feel like they are interesting to another person! Asking questions allows you to be fun and helps take away any shyness or uncertainty on your part – or his. 

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  • There’s nothing wrong with a simple “hello!” Find an opening with a comment on the book he’s reading, or the score of the game on the bar tv, or even just a “I noticed you sitting over here and just thought I’d stop and say hi!” It’s fun and sassy without being overt. 
  • Remember to just enjoy the process! Not every meeting or date is going to be with “Mr. Right.” But each one will lead you closer to him, and the practice you get along the way is priceless. Remember, this is YOUR story. Every date is just another chapter and will give you valuable information about what you love and don’t love, what you’re adding to your wish list and what you’re crossing off! Keep going and you’ll become a dating expert yourself!

These are just a few simple but effective tricks to help you warm back up to flirting! Maybe you have a few up your sleeve too. Dust them off and get ready to get back out there!

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Watching a man interact with others while you’re on a date with him can be quite illuminating. How does he treat the parking attendant or the wait staff at the restaurant? Does he try to order for you (and if so, how do you like that?)? 

Does he reach over to try your entrée without asking? Even something like excusing himself (or not) to wash his hands before dinner can be telling you valuable information about who he is! 

Dating should be fun, not a source of stress! 

Try to just relax and allow it to open your eyes to new experiences and new ways of thinking about your future relationship. Every date you go on – even if it’s one where you “get a headache” and end the evening early –  is one step closer to THE date – the one that leads you to your soulmate!

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Categories : All About You

Date High Value | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· May 27, 2021 

Date High Value!

In today’s video, I’m pretty much unplugged. Delivering heartfelt wisdom from the hallway of the Thompson Hotel in Nashville. A perfect (although not conventional) example of being high value.

Thanks for being here. June will be our high-value month and we’re going to deep dive into the nuances of value.

Mark your calendar and please join me every Thursday (June 2021) LIVE at 3:00 pm Pac., 5 pm CST., 6 pm EST.

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Categories : All About You, Create the Life You Want, Dating, Relationships
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy

Time to speak your truth | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· May 18, 2021 

Time to speak your truth

We’ve all been living differently for about a year now, and for many people, spending a lot more time on one’s own can dredge up emotional issues that were long suppressed. Did you experience that? If so, that can be a tough thing to carry as you attempt to date online now. Coronavirus dating was/is all about a new brand of digital intimacy, and maybe now, a year in, you’re finding that you struggle to make real connections because of all the blocks that have resurfaced! You’re afraid to speak up and speak your truth.

You’re not alone!

There are thousands of people who have turned SO inward in the face of isolation, that they’ve all but forgotten how to meet new people! 

But you MUST overcome this and put yourself out there! Learning to tip-toe your way into intimacy and truth with a man even when social restrictions seem to make it difficult, is KEY to manifesting the love you want.

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One of the best online dating profiles I’ve seen lately was 100% real. She wasn’t trying to be anything but herself. It went something like this:

“Single mom quarantined with two crazy monkeys (kids) in dire need of adult contact (wine) but hesitant to date (because, you know, pandemic death risk). Let me know if you’re interested in getting to know a sassy (sarcastic), chilled out (exhausted) and open-minded mom of two. P.S. I like my space and won’t answer messages during The Bachelor.”

My guess is that she was BOMBARDED with messages and the good news? She is in charge. She can respond or not! She was honest, she set boundaries. And the same can be true for you .

If you’re too afraid to speak up about your truth and set boundaries, your self-esteem suffers AND your partner will lose respect for you. What’s worse you’ll feel doubly betrayed – by yourself for not speaking up, and by your partner for overstepping! This just leads to a spiral of confusion and hard feelings.

Another way staying silent can hurt is that it causes many women to distance themselves emotionally. And in this age of social distancing, the emotional bond is more important than ever! This is a time for truth and not settling for anything that doesn’t make you feel fulfilled and happy, because there are enough things in the world that drain you. Staying emotionally connected to a partner can help get you through the tough days. 

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And think about it- it’s never been easier to protect yourself! You are separated by a computer screen and possibly thousands of miles and social distancing regulations (which seem to be lifting now). If you’re not vibing with someone, just cut ties and move on! The silver lining of this pandemic is that you have more space than ever to really zero in on what you want and release the rest without fear of awkward in-person run-ins!

Usually, not being able to find and use your voice springs from one thing -FEAR. Fear of rejection, fear of being seen, fear of not being good enough…they can all render you speechless (believe me, I have been there). But being fear driven is no way to live and love. It isn’t until you can overcome that fear that you’ll truly be able to present your authentic self and use your voice to the utmost.

What fears are you struggling with most right now? I’m sure you’re not alone. Let’s get a discussion going in the comments! 

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💖Go here to read about joining my Inner Circle: The Engaged at Any Age Inner Circle is your best chance to fulfill your mission and find a quality man. Get access to my team and me every week, receiving advice and feedback you need to move forward on your love journey, and so much more! Go here to read about it and sign up!

Categories : All About You, Create the Life You Want, Dating, Relationships
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy

Men and boundaries | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· May 11, 2021 

Come closer, but not TOO close! (The Importance of Good Boundaries!)

Have you ever considered just how important setting strong boundaries is for dating? Sound counterintuitive? After all, we want the men to come CLOSER right? Well….sort of!

Boundaries are vital because boundaries – what you will and won’t accept from a relationship  – keep you feeling safe and confident in your own values and preferences. THEY MATTER.

When we don’t have any parameters, and instead acquiesce to whatever requests come our way, in spite of how we might feel, we become uncomfortable and even resentful, right? And is that good for the relationship? No way! It isn’t good for your mental well-being, either, and that is a really important point to remember.

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Remember, men aren’t mind readers. You need to teach them how to treat you, and boundary setting can help. When you have strong, healthy boundaries, you show that you have strong and healthy self-esteem. Trust me, men respect women who communicate healthy boundaries early and often – quality men do not want to date a doormat!

The key, though, is in HOW you establish those boundaries. Time to get out your “feather,” ladies! You want to gently and consistently present what makes you comfortable as opposed to going on the defensive and withdrawing or acting out when he oversteps his bounds (especially when he may not even realize that he has!). He’ll be much more receptive if things are made clear ahead of time, lovingly and honestly. 

It’s not always just in what you say, but how you say it!

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I want you to take some time and think about where you are with your boundaries – in setting them, communicating them, and reacting when you feel they’ve been violated. Are you forthright or wishy-washy? Do you react viscerally, or do you withdraw? Unless your answers make you feel content and proud, you have some work to do. Future partners will thank you. It’s as much for his sake as it is for yours. 

Remember, boundaries give a relationship structure and help you attract and keep the kind of man you want. If you find yourself with a man who isn’t respecting yours after you’ve made them clear, it’s time to move on to someone who does!

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Categories : All About You, Create the Life You Want, Dating, Relationships
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy

Mistakes Women Make Dating Over 50 | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· April 15, 2021 

I made a new video for you about my top 5 mistakes women make when dating. I do think you are doing your best I just want to help you avoid making these mistakes because I care about you and your success on and offline.

Go here to watch my latest video.

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Categories : All About You, Confidence, Dating, Relationships
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy

My top dating tips | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· April 1, 2021 

Online dating is the best way to meet men, and it’s only getting better. Since covid, there’s been a 78% increase in memberships on online dating platforms. Online dating is different than dating in real, and the key to be successful online is to hone in on the good guys and ignore and delete the bad ones. This video is about reminding you of my four top tips for online dating that I feel will give you an edge and smooth the path and speed up the process! Go here to watch my latest video

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Categories : All About You, Confidence, Dating, Relationships
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy

Dating Over 50: What Men Want | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· March 25, 2021 

One of the problems I see happening with dating is women overcomplicate things way too much! Men are pretty simple in my experience and I’ve found 5 consistent things men want in a woman when dating over 50.

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Categories : Attraction, Dating, Relationships
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy
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Men Love This Quality! | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· March 23, 2021 

Jaki Playing ChessOne of the many things I’ve learned in my career over the years is that playfulness is a feminine quality that men love. They appreciate a woman who can be carefree and spontaneous, ready to take on a fun new adventure! I know my husband Michael loves that side of me.

It probably won’t surprise you to learn, however, that lately I just haven’t felt very playful. and I realize I’ve been more serious and somber than usual. And no matter how much I try to balance the stress of current events with good things and joy, it’s been taking a toll on me. Are you in the same boat? I know MANY women who are.

I’m focusing on amping up my playfulness factor this month, both for my well-being and for my family’s. I invite you to do the same! Think of how happy you were as a kid after a day spent running around outside, playing in a sprinkler, bike riding, even reading under a shady tree. You can recapture that feeling even now.

There are plenty of little things your can build into your days that can bring a lighter mood and a smile to your face. You need that – we are living through an incredibly stressful time. 

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Here are a few things I’m planning to do to bring back my sense of play! They’re easy and can make a big impact on your mood and outlook.  

  • Cranking up the tunes –  I love good old rock and roll! I can’t wait to tell Alexa to play my favorite 80’s rock playlist and dance around my kitchen with Michael.
  • Taking long walks – Sometimes for exercise, sometimes just for daydreaming. Either way, so much of my joy comes from nature that I am going to be intentional about making this a priority. It never fails to lift my spirits.
  • Dressing up – Even if it’s just jeans with a nice tee and fun jewelry to wear around my house, dressing up has always felt like play for me! June Cleaver used to wear a dress and pearls to cook dinner – you don’t have to go that far but it could be fun to dress up and make yourself a super fancy cocktail!

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  • Meeting up with friends on Zoom – This is a great way to reconnect with friends near and far. Laughing about old times is fun! You can even play games like Pictionary or have a trivia contest.
  • Taking Zumba classes – This is a big one. Nothing feels better than when I’m moving my body! Many gyms are now holding outdoor and virtual online classes – check one out! The music is so fantastic you just can’t help moving to the beat. Even if you think you have two left feet, I urge you to try this fun form of exercise. 
  • Getting more laughs– With so many streaming options to choose from, I’ll have no problem finding comedies old and new to crack me up. There are lots of stand-up comics to be discovered there as well! I’m not in the mood for any tear-jerkers right now (I feel like I get enough of that feeling just reading headlines) – I need some belly laughs!
  • Dreaming – Yes! In the midst of this changing world, I’m going to start changing myself too. The first step in that process is dreaming of future goals and where I want my life to go. I’m going to put together a vision board to help focus my efforts and make my dreams a reality. Try it – it’s fun to dream of the future (especially when the present seems a bit scary and uncertain)!

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This is just a starting point, and I’m sure you have some ideas of your own. If you have a minute, drop me a line and let me know how YOU are going to recover your sense of playfulness. I want to know!

Remember- you landed here because a loving relationship with a man who adores you is one of your most important life goals. 

When you awaken your sense of play, you become irresistible! He is navigating this crazy world too! Men don’t talk about it as much, but they are feeling the heaviness just as much as we are.

And when he sees you, light, carefree and reveling in feminine playfulness, you will be the exact breath of fresh air he’s craving right now!

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