In today’s video I talk about the power of your feminine energy and why men respond so naturally to it.
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This isn’t going to be one of those posts that encourages you to throw out the old you and do something totally different. And it’s not to push you to do things that feel completely foreign and make you soooo uncomfortable.
What I want to suggest though, is that you look at the possibility of being a “new you” as adding to what’s already wonderful! You are amazing exactly as you are, and I want you to know that. But I also want you to know that everyone has something that they would like to change. And acknowledging that and working toward a change for the better is wonderful!
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So, let’s start in that direction by looking at the one thing that you probably have had on your list for a long time: you want to build a strong, healthy relationship with the man you’ve been looking for. Great! Here are three ways that you can make changes for the better, small changes, that can help you call him into your life this year.
Practice gratitude. It’s amazing the difference practicing gratitude makes in your life! And I don’t just mean telling someone “thanks” for holding the door. Really sit in this feeling of gratitude. In the quiet moments, reflect on all the people and things in your life that you truly appreciate. Supportive friends, never-ending summer (hey, that’s real for some people!), your favorite food, even the way the sun shines through the windows of your living room. When you appreciate the little things, you call in more to be thankful for. Even the stuff that you may not appreciate normally like being caught in traffic are an opportunity for gratitude! If you’re in traffic, you have to slow down, and that’s a chance to take a deep breath and relax. Be thankful for new things this year!
Be spontaneous. If you always have to book things weeks in advance, then this is definitely for you! Leave a little space in your calendar for being spontaneous. If the mood seizes you, call some girlfriends for lunch, ask a friend to meet you for drinks, head to a new part of town with your cousin. And remember: you’re also leaving space for someone to ask you, “Can I take you to dinner tonight?”
Try one new thing. New things don’t stick if they are jarring and uncomfortable, so start small. Make a list of things that you would like to try or that you think you would enjoy, and just pick one to do. It doesn’t have to be anything outlandish. It could be as simple as jogging on a new trail or stopping by an organic-only grocery store. Expanding your idea of what works in your life opens you up to stretch your comfort zone in new ways, which makes it easy to welcome in someone new.
When you feel like a whole new you full of gratitude, trying new things, and ready to be spontaneous, you’ll find yourself enjoying life more and more! And what’s more attractive than a woman having a blast just being herself?
I’d love to have the opportunity to get to support you and know you better this year. If you haven’t joined the Ladies Club, Click here to join. You’ll be embraced by our community of like-minded women, who like you, are on the Journey to their Soulmate.
Sending you so much love!
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In today’s video, I talk about how hard the holidays can be when you are single and give you some tips to sidestep all the mental drama associated with being single over the holidays.
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When you’re single, you sometimes have a feeling of deep loneliness, that feeling that there is something wrong with you. I’ve been there before, and I know exactly what that’s like!
It seems like everywhere you look, EVERYONE is a couple. Old people, young people, birds, pets . . . Geesh.
This is because your mind is focused on finding a partner, or rather your lack of a partner. What you focus on, you always see more of!
Instead of letting that perpetual shoe-without-a-mate feeling make you lonely, let’s try something that will make you feel better.
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The next time you see a happy couple together, smile. Think about their happiness and mentally congratulate them. They are together, and that’s something you want too! This is a much better way of welcoming it into your life than letting it reflect negatively on you.
Sending love and light to happy couples in love aligns you to the same frequency. It sounds crazy but it’s true. And better yet, it’s an EASY way to send out signals of attraction.
Remember, there is nothing wrong with you, and there is also nothing wrong with being alone. You can be alone without being lonely. Appreciate your alone time while you wait to find someone who deserves you. Take a little extra time to work out, read a book, or hang out with friends. Love yourself in that time, and you will attract more love! This all about energy and doing simple things that raise your frequency, your vibe and your powerful feminine essence!
You have everything else in your life together, and you will find someone who will appreciate that and love you for being you.
Your state of being “alone” is temporary. Raise your vibe, send out love and love is exactly what you’ll get back!
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In today’s video, I suggest monitoring your tone of voice, choose your words carefully, use “I” language. Another important factor is timing! Timing is everything when you ask for what you want.
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Are you feeling discouraged and overwhelmed? There was a moment earlier this week that I was feeling that too, and I had to take STOP and take a spiritual time out.
In this video, I give you a few tips on how to stay more present and avoid the “rabbit hole” thinking that typically ends with you feeling even worse!
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I work with a lot of women who are looking at a new beginning, many because they are divorced.
Starting over after a divorce can be hard emotionally, plus getting back into dating isn’t always a task we want to tackle. Your heart might still be pretty raw!
On top of that, we may have underlying thoughts that make it difficult to put ourselves out there due to the breakup. We can be left wondering if we will ever find someone who is ready for a real relationship. Someone who will treat us the way we want to be treated. Or maybe we are worried about making another mistake!
All that combined can be enough to make you want to join a convent—I’ve heard A LOT of women joke about that—or swear off men—yep, I’ve heard that one too!—but let’s look at it a different way.
You already know what doesn’t work, and you have a better idea of what you’re looking for now that you’ve been through the battle! And we both know that money is a BIG issue after a divorce. Finding a man who is financially secure is important because, let’s face it, as a successful woman who has it all together, we want someone who is right there with us.
One of the biggest issues in relationships can be finances. So if you feel a little nervous about looking for someone who has all their stuff together financially, don’t be! You’re not greedy. You’re not a princess. You just want someone who is your equal. And that’s awesome!
Someone who doesn’t have direction or is always struggling to pay off credit cards or hasn’t bothered to save any money for the future isn’t someone you want as a partner, so don’t believe for a second that it’s ok to accept that. You know what you deserve, and that’s someone who has their finances together, just like you do! The total package is out there <name> so you don’t have to choose between desires!
Don’t accept a date from a guy who isn’t on par with you just because a friend told you it’s time to get back in the game or because he has the most beautiful blue eyes or whatever! Know what you want, and don’t accept anything less!
You’re amazing, and he should be too!
Do you ever feel like you need to put “Serious relationship inquiries only” on your online dating profile? Does it seem like most of the guys out there are just looking for a hookup?
If that resonated with you, I’m sure you are feeling the frustration. You meet someone with potential, and he’s perfect on paper, but when you want to meet him, he asks you to come over for “a movie and cuddles.” Seriously?
I don’t care if he is a math professor and a model—that is NOT what you’re looking for. And you deserve so much more.
Finding a guy who wants something more than a casual hook up when you meet them in the real world may seem like a challenge, but those guys really are out there. It is easier to talk about intentions online than in real life, so when you talk to them, let them know what you’re looking for. Be honest.
Usually, they will be honest, too, if they are only looking to hook up (after all, they aren’t going to meet their goal with you!). Then you don’t have to worry about wasting your time on a “date” that is heading in the wrong direction.
But a word of caution, name, don’t settle! If you suspect that he’s only looking to hook up, trust your gut, and don’t waste your time. And if you go out with a guy who only wants to hook up, don’t do it thinking that you can change his mind. Remember, men are pretty stubborn. If he wants a hookup, that’s probably all he wants!
You know what you want. Don’t compromise!
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