The lights, the sounds, the stores full of people! You know the holidays are upon us with all the bustle and activity going on!
But as a single woman, it can be tough seeing everyone gathering and celebrating when you feel alone.
I’ve been through some tough holidays myself where all I really wanted was for someone to hold me, invite me to their office party, or kiss me under the mistletoe.
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If you’re feeling a little blue because you haven’t found the right man for you yet, I want to help by giving you some tips for beating the holiday loneliness and enjoying the season.
- Accept all the invitations you get! Neighborhood dessert party? Whip up your grandmother’s secret recipe spice cake and go! Family feast? Grab a box of holiday poppers and let everyone be kids! Friendsgiving? Show up with your favorite wine and a smile on your face!
Show yourself that you know how to be happy and comfortable just being you, and enjoy meeting up with old friends and new acquaintances. Remember that we can’t attract new love if we are sitting home by ourselves feeling the weight of being alone. Take it upon yourself to lift your spirits and go jingle some bells in style!
You never really know when you’ll bump into a man you want to build a relationship with, and even if you don’t find him while you’re out, you can still have a fantastic time connecting and enjoying life!
- Host a party yourself! Not getting the flood of invites that you had hoped for. That doesn’t mean you’re stuck watching Hallmark holiday movies for the next six weeks. Make a list of six people you’d like to get together with and start planning a party.
Set up your dining room for a game night. Host a spaghetti dinner. Rent your neighborhood clubhouse and karaoke machine. Make reservations at a restaurant. Get out your ugly sweaters. Get out your fancy hats. Pick a day. Pick a theme. And get started!
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You can plan a small, intimate gathering, or you can ask your friends to invite their friends, too! The beauty of planning it yourself is that, well, you’re in charge! Make it anything you want! Better yet, make it exactly what you need to feel happy and excited for the holidays.
When we take charge of our social lives, we tell the Universe what we want. Adventure. Excitement. Peace. Love. Whatever it is you crave, make it happen now, and you’ll bring more of it into your life soon!
Love,
Jaki
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