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6 Rules for Dating Over 50

Posted by Skye Hawk 
· April 8, 2020 
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Learn the 6 Rules that you should follow when dating over the age of 50! 

Dating over 50 is really exciting because this is when you come into your wisdom years, and you can bring so much wisdom and so much genuine, authentic presence to each interaction you have with men. When you’re dating over 50, you’re coming into a place in your life when you’re starting to put yourself first, and that’s really attractive to a man. Jaki shares six tips or rules for dating over 50.

 

  • 01:29:16 – #1 Don’t Bond Over Your Baggage
  • 03:18:09 – #2 DOn’t Call Him
  • 04:21:15 – #3 Don’t Have Sex
  • 06:15:05 – #4 Stop beings so picky
  • 08:17:08 – #5 Flirting
  • 10:32:14 – #6 Let the conversation flow

 

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Do You GIVE to GET Love?

Posted by Skye Hawk 
· April 2, 2020 
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Date During a Pandemic

How to Date During a Pandemic!

Posted by Hope 
· March 31, 2020 
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Date During a Pandemic

Wow – what a difference a couple of weeks can make. We are certainly living in the middle of a historic event, one that has seen even our daily routines turned upside down.

But remember, we are all in this together and I know we will make it through. I wanted to talk to you a bit about remembering to look for bright spots in this new way of living. One way you can do this is to practice virtual dating.

I know, I know. It’s not quite like being out on a date in person, but virtual dating allows you to stay connected with promising men you’ve met online. Besides, it’s fun!

Who doesn’t need a little fun in the midst of everything that’s happening right now? And if the virtual dates go well, once you can meet face to face, the sparks will really fly! It also allows you to be socially responsible without losing romantic momentum!!

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Once you’ve set up a time for your “date,” there are a few tips I want you to keep in mind.

First, check around your house for the best place for the date. By “best” I mean, best lighting! Take a few test videos in different spots to see what works. For a daytime chat, a window is always preferable. Once you’ve found your perfect spot, make sure anything in the background is impersonal so as not to reveal too much of your identity (family photos, mail, etc.).

Before you go live, get in touch with your date via WhatsApp and your Google Voice number (for privacy). Set a boundary in a fun way with a text – something like “Now, don’t get too excited – it’s just to chat! ?”

Then get dressed like you’re going out on the town, pour yourself a drink (note this can be tea or coffee or water, too), and get ready to chat!

Keep listening to your inner voice. If you feel uncomfortable for any reason – he is too suggestive, shows up dressed inappropriately, drinks too much – end the date! This is a bonus of the virtual date. It’s much easier to say “Thanks, but I need to go now” and disconnect than trying to end a bad date in the middle of dinner.

Remember not to limit yourself right now, either! You’ll know when the right “one” comes along and you want to spend more time chatting with him.

If you follow these simple guidelines, virtual dating can be a fun and easy way to stay focused on the future, when you’re able to be out and about with the man of your dreams!

In the meantime, relax, connect with some quality men, and remember that I’m holding you in my heart!

xo

Jaki

 

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Learn to Receive with Grace

Posted by Skye Hawk 
· March 26, 2020 
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Don’t WAIT for the Red Flags!

Posted by Skye Hawk 
· March 24, 2020 
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I know you’ve seen plenty of articles about what to watch out for when you’re dating – actions and emotions that come up as red flag warnings to alert you that maybe this ISN’T your dream man.

That’s all well and good, but why invest more time in a bad relationship than you need to? Instead of waiting for the OBVIOUS red flags, watch out for these more subtle signs that you might want to move on! 

 


1. Communication Issues: 

When your man does or says something that bothers you, are you comfortable saying so? Would he tell you if the situation were reversed? If you find yourself holding back or walking on eggshells, that’s a signal that all isn’t as it should be. And you know it in your gut! Think about it – can you see yourself going the distance with someone that you can’t be honest with? It’s so important to be able to relax in the presence of the right man.  A communication barrier is not compatible with relaxation! Don’t do it. 

 

2. Lack of Deep Discussions: 

No, not every conversation has to be about solving world problems. Go ahead and chat about celebrity gossip if you want to! But as a relationship continues, the two of you DO need to develop a deeper connection about your world views, your religion, your values and what’s important to you. This is critical for growing strong roots that create stability and growth for the long term. If ALL your conversations stay at the shallow end, or he seems to get uncomfortable if you tiptoe into depth, watch out…and get out! 

 

3. Lack of touch: 

You need to have affection in your relationship! I’m not just talking about the obvious here either. I’m talking about the energy behind your legs brushing against his under the table, his hand on your leg, holding hands and sweet kisses. These are the “little things” that develop the day-to-day warmth and bonding that are vital to keeping your relationship strong. Sexual compatibility is a wonderful thing, but it’s not the only thing. If your only physical contact is in the bedroom, investigate that further.    

 

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Your time is too precious to waste even one minute on a relationship that in the end is going to go nowhere. Don’t go looking for problems but keep these subtle signals in the back of your mind! 

 

xo 

Jaki 

 

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Don’t be Afraid to Say Goodbye

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· March 2, 2020 
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Sometimes in the course of a relationship there comes what I call the point of no return. Maybe it’s yet another canceled date. Maybe he listened with half an ear yet again after he asked you about your day. Maybe he didn’t ask about your day at ALL! Whatever “it” is, your gut knows it and will tell you in no uncertain terms that it’s time to move on.

When I work with a client, I encourage her to be attuned to how a man “shows up” for her. Does he, for example, make plans and keep them (as opposed to saying he doesn’t care what restaurant she picks)? Remember how she hates mushrooms? Listen to her and ask follow-up questions when they talk? The definition of showing up is different for every woman, but if your man doesn’t do it early and often, it’s almost always better to break things off sooner rather than later!

“Easy for you to say, Jaki!” I know, I know. Hear me out.


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Of course, it’s hard to let go of the “known,” but remember that your pangs of regret and hesitancy are coming from a place of fear, not love. And we always, always want to operate from a place of love and acceptance. It’s best to pause and breathe and reframe an ended relationship, not as a waste of time but rather a lesson in which you gained clarity about what you don’t want. When you think of things that way, you reinforce your self-love and will resolve to go after what you really deserve next time! Let go of who isn’t for you, and you’ll have space and freedom to make room for someone better. It is that simple.

Are you still not sure it’s better to get out sooner? Here’s some perspective from one of my clients!
“I decided to end the relationship about a week ago. I found N. to be too intense and needy. He wanted my undivided attention and for us to be together ALL the time. He was controlling and jealous of my other relationships with friends and family. I became less attracted to him the more I got to know him. I discussed the issues and my concerns with him. Rather than working together on a solution, he told me he “needed more” from me! At that point, I knew there was no point in continuing the relationship. Yet, I am so thankful for having dated him, as I learned a lot about myself and what I do and don’t want in a relationship.”


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This is a perfect example of what I’m talking about. Instead of wallowing in fear and feeling uncertain if she did the right thing, my client now has clarity and feels HOPEFUL about what’s possible. She’s not clinging to N. as if he’s the only man on Earth – she knows he isn’t!

Besides, in this era of internet dating, your new possibilities are right there in a simple click or swipe – you just need to be open to them!

If you feel stuck and unhappy with who you’re dating, time to take stock, ask yourself if this is how you’ve dreamed a relationship would be…and if not, time to move on!

xo
Jaki

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Dating Trend you Need to know

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· February 26, 2020 
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Is He Bread-crumbing You?  

Ladies, there is yet another new dating buzz word that I need you to be aware of. It’s called bread-crumbing, and in my opinion, it’s even worse than ghosting! Why? Because as painful and irritating it is to be ghosted, at least you know it’s time to move on. With bread-crumbing, a man keeps you hanging on through the least amount of effort he can – in effect, tossing you crumbs – and leaves you wondering if he really wants to date you, or if you’re just a back-up plan.

You may know it as being strung along. He gives you just enough attention to keep you around, running hot and cold, depending on his whims and his schedule. Not cool at all! Here are some red flags to look out for to guard against this obnoxious behavior! 

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  • You get sporadic communication from him – a text here, a DM there (oh do they love the DMs!)…and not on a daily basis. It’s almost like these guys have ESP. When you finally get fed up with the inconsistency, they sense it and crank up the contact for a few days in a row or a week. You get your hopes up and then – crickets for days. Again. Ugh!! Remember, it takes only seconds to send someone a text; if he can’t even do that, do you really think he’s planning a fabulous weekend away with you?
  • He isn’t one to make concrete plans a week ahead of time (or ever in some cases!). He knows he doesn’t have to because you’re so into him that he can drop you a line at 7 pm on Friday, asking if he can stop by later that evening…and you know what he’s looking for. Don’t be his booty call! 
  • He often cancels plans you do manage to make, and you get the impression he got a better offer—multiple times. 
  • He becomes offended if you point out his rotten behavior. Then, to prove he isn’t doing it, he will pour on the attention for a little while. That is until you’re comfortable. Get ready to pick up those crumbs again! 
  • Your BS meter is going through the roof! Women know when we aren’t someone’s priority. The trouble is, we often fall into the trap of thinking we can change the behavior. That if we just give him some time to see how wonderful things could be, he’ll come around. I want you to stop doing this. Pay heed to that inner voice that’s tipping you off about the middle-of-the-night texts that say “thinking of you” when he hasn’t thought enough to actually to see you in person in weeks! Don’t make excuses for him. 

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Friends, your time and love are just too precious to waste on low-quality men who play games like this! The cost of maintaining contact with someone who bread-crumbs comes in the form of uncertainty and anxiety, never wanting to be without your phone lest you miss a message from him, or keeping your calendar open in case he has some free time. It’s not happening! You deserve better than this manipulative situation (and believe me, it is – there’s plenty of forethought!)  

Please know that there are quality men out there who, like you, have had enough of the games and who know time is valuable. Stop collecting those crumbs! Tell this guy his little birdie is flying the coop… and mean it. 

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Use Your Feather on Valentine’s Day!

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· February 11, 2020 
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With Valentine’s Day rapidly approaching, I’ve been hearing from many ladies in my group that they’re unsure of how to navigate the day.

Maybe you’re wondering the same!

You know how you’d like to celebrate, and may even have some bling in mind for your guy to give you as a gift. Yet, the ghosts of Valentine’s past spring up and you don’t know if you should just keep your mouth shut and let him take the lead or give a subtle hint about what you’re hoping for.

One woman I know is already feeling disappointed because he hasn’t said anything – but neither has she!

You don’t have to stay silent, ladies! Men are not mind readers, and while Valentine’s Day can be full of love and fun, it’s also a holiday that puts a LOT of pressure on men. If they don’t do enough, they’re in trouble. If they go overboard, they can also be in trouble (if it scares their partner off!).

Do them a favor and speak up so there’s little chance for confusion or disappointment on either of your parts. As we know, men are not known for their mind-reading abilities. This isn’t the time to hint around. They either won’t notice or worse, will find it annoying! Use a Valentine’s ad on tv as a springboard if you want, but from there, nothing beats the direct approach. What would feel best for you? A night out? A sparkly new necklace? A weekend away? Go over in your mind the possibilities and see what your gut tells you. You’ll know what the sweet spot is, where you get what you want, and he feels appreciated by giving it to you.

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It’s important, however, to not use a hammer to drive home your expectations! Instead, use your feather. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again – gentle guidance wins the day. Your current man isn’t to blame for your past Valentine’s Day disappointments so don’t go into complaining mode and give him the impression that he better deliver – or else! Better to give him some ideas of some special gifts you’d love, or the name of a new restaurant you’d like to try, or…well, use your imagination! If you wrap your

request around words of excitement and joy that you’re so happy to have him to celebrate the day with, he will want to come through for you.

Isn’t this a much better scenario than finding out on February 13th he got a reservation somewhere you hate, on the 15th, because the place was full for Valentine’s Day? Or receiving a bouquet of flowers when you’re allergic? Or a gold necklace when you’re partial to silver?

Don’t be afraid, to be honest, and get your needs met this Valentine’s Day! May it be a day full of love and light for you this year.

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