Today is my 57th birthday, and I’m on a plane heading to Maui, Hawaii. It’s been two years since I’ve been there, and I’m excited beyond words.
I made a video for you before I left about How to be classy on dates.
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Online dating is the best way to meet men, and it’s only getting better. Since covid, there’s been a 78% increase in memberships on online dating platforms. Online dating is different than dating in real, and the key to be successful online is to hone in on the good guys and ignore and delete the bad ones. This video is about reminding you of my four top tips for online dating that I feel will give you an edge and smooth the path and speed up the process! Go here to watch my latest video
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“Oh, I am so busy!”
We all say it, and often even mean it…but being super busy isn’t necessarily healthy!
That’s because when we are “busy” – with work or hobbies or whatever is taking up the bulk of our time – it allows us to avoid things that we don’t want to face. Things like starting to date, or unpacking our inner baggage, or problems nagging us in the back of our minds.
When you’re busy, you don’t have time to dwell on what’s missing in your life. You can’t sit quietly with your thoughts and think about the consequences of choices you’ve made or recent triggers you’ve faced.
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You can “hide” in the energy of being busy!
The problem with this is, eventually the things from which you’re hiding WILL get your attention. Maybe it will be in the form of an uncomfortable phone call, or a forgotten appointment, or even a migraine! And if that happens, you’re in a position of defensiveness, of reacting to the issue instead of proactively handling things.
A healthier thing to do is slow down and check-in with yourself. Even the busiest among us can take ten minutes to breathe and concentrate on ourselves! You may surprise yourself with the results.
Just recently in my own life, I was really busy with the launch of a new program when I experienced a “trigger moment.” I wanted to just avoid it and made myself even busier as a distraction. But deep down I knew that I needed to lean into that trigger and get curious about it. I needed to spend some time dealing with it in a healthier way than just ignoring the issue. And in fact, if I had kept ignoring it, I would have missed the benefits of the wisdom that arose when I finally faced how I was feeling.
The next time you tell yourself you’re “too busy to” date, do some inner work, confront an uncomfortable situation, pause for a minute and really think about what you’re telling yourself. Are you really too busy? Or are you hiding? The answer may surprise you!
And I get it. This level of awareness is not for the faint of heart. But it is the mark of a fully actualized, super-empowered, totally captivating WOMAN!
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One of the problems I see happening with dating is women over complicate things way too much! Men are pretty simple in my experience and I’ve found 5 consistent things men want in a woman when dating over 50.
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One of the many things I’ve learned in my career over the years is that playfulness is a feminine quality that men love. They appreciate a woman who can be carefree and spontaneous, ready to take on a fun new adventure! I know my husband Michael loves that side of me.
It probably won’t surprise you to learn, however, that lately I just haven’t felt very playful. and I realize I’ve been more serious and somber than usual. And no matter how much I try to balance the stress of current events with good things and joy, it’s been taking a toll on me. Are you in the same boat? I know MANY women who are.
I’m focusing on amping up my playfulness factor this month, both for my well-being and for my family’s. I invite you to do the same! Think of how happy you were as a kid after a day spent running around outside, playing in a sprinkler, bike riding, even reading under a shady tree. You can recapture that feeling even now.
There are plenty of little things your can build into your days that can bring a lighter mood and a smile to your face. You need that – we are living through an incredibly stressful time.
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Here are a few things I’m planning to do to bring back my sense of play! They’re easy and can make a big impact on your mood and outlook.
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This is just a starting point, and I’m sure you have some ideas of your own. If you have a minute, drop me a line and let me know how YOU are going to recover your sense of playfulness. I want to know!
Remember- you landed here because a loving relationship with a man who adores you is one of your most important life goals.
When you awaken your sense of play, you become irresistible! He is navigating this crazy world too! Men don’t talk about it as much, but they are feeling the heaviness just as much as we are.
And when he sees you, light, carefree and reveling in feminine playfulness, you will be the exact breath of fresh air he’s craving right now!
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Years ago, when I was newly divorced, I spent many nights sitting alone on my couch feeling despondent and sure that I would never find love again. In fact, there were many times I didn’t even think I WANTED to find love again! I had been so let down and it was hard for me to trust that there were men out there who wouldn’t break my heart.
Is that where you are right now? Maybe you’ve had one too many heartbreaks lately and are having a hard time believing in love. If this IS how you’re feeling, my heart goes out to you. It’s such a hard place to be.
But that’s why I’m writing this – I want to help you break free from this pattern of thinking. Your true love is out there trying to find you, but you have to help ease his path to your door.
You can take The Commitment Quiz right here, right now. I think you’ll be excited about the insight it gives you into what’s blocking you from the committed relationship you desire.
Some things you can do to get back to believing again:
Also remind yourself that what happened to you is not a reflection of your worth but rather a reflection of the other person’s inability to love. Period! It was THEM, not YOU.
You can take The Commitment Quiz right here, right now. I think you’ll be excited about the insight it gives you into what’s blocking you from the committed relationship you desire.
You can take The Commitment Quiz right here, right now. I think you’ll be excited about the insight it gives you into what’s blocking you from the committed relationship you desire.
Your perfect man won’t be able to connect with you if you shut yourself off from the world. It’s time to get off the couch and go after the love you’ve been waiting for!
You can take The Commitment Quiz right here, right now. I think you’ll be excited about the insight it gives you into what’s blocking you from the committed relationship you desire.
According to the hugely successful dating site eHarmony, more than 600,000 of their members have gotten married to people they met on the site. And that’s a stat from just ONE internet dating service!
Clearly, online dating isn’t going away anytime soon, and it can be a fantastic tool to use to practice your dating and conversation skills while you search for your “one and only.” You can learn how to use these sites to weed out poor matches and reel in the good ones!
I admit I’m a fan – it was online that I met my husband. Trust me, there ARE quality men out there just waiting to connect with you!
“But Jaki,” I can hear you saying, “how do I figure out who’s on there for a relationship and who’s just there for a good time?”
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Let me show you.
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I know the prospect of putting yourself out there can be intimidating. But online dating can open you up to a whole new world of possibilities. My advice? Pick a site that most closely aligns with what you want and try it out for a bit. Then if you’re not comfortable or feel like you’re not making good connections, take a week break. Then get back online!
As always, I’m here to help. You’ve got nothing to lose!
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We all have instances in our lives in which we’re hurt by someone we care about. Even if they occurred long ago (even sometimes as far back as childhood!), these occurrences can impact our present, wreaking havoc on our happiness and our relationships. This ruminating on the past isn’t healthy, but I see so many women struggle with how to handle these emotions so that they can forgive, and most importantly, let go!
There are plenty of people walking around today who appear to have it all together, who are functioning very well in society, even “climbing up the ladder” towards career success. But if we look closer into their hearts, you’d see that even they have some kind of constant hurt and pain playing on a loop again and again. Does that sound like you? It likely does; it fits everyone at some point! But to truly live a life of joy and peace, these hurts MUST be finally banished to the past, where they have no power over you.
So the question becomes, “How can I move past this and leave it behind?” I know it sounds daunting. Maybe you’ve even tried and decided you weren’t up for it just yet. But please give yourself some credit – you’re stronger than you think! Here are some steps you can take to lessen the impact of those past slings and arrows:
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This isn’t easy work, but it’s absolutely vital if you want to call in a new relationship and grow it from clean and pure ground!
Forgiving the past sends a powerful message to the universe that you have made space to receive a bright and beautiful future!
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