I think it’s time we all redefine what it is to be a modern woman! We’ve been bombarded with information about how to “get ahead” and “have it all”, and far too often those messages come with an underlying message…that we need to use more masculine-based energy to obtain what we want!
Don’t get me wrong here; our more masculine facets have their place. They come in handy when we need to take decisive action in a situation, for example. Because that’s where masculine energy is based, in action. But it’s actually our feminine essence – our intuitive and nurturing side – that will ultimately attract what we want most in life, including our ideal partner. You just have to learn to listen to it and use it!
It’s in the spirit of helping you do that; I ask you,
What would truly fulfill you, deep down in your heart of hearts?
Take a few minutes to jot down what first comes to you. Think of it as an exercise in listening to your inner voice.
Ask your soul “What am I craving?” and write without judgment.
You might wonder why focusing on yourself is such an important part of being attractive to others. Part of trusting our feminine essence is inviting ourselves to relax into our truth and find what really makes us happy.
So tune into what makes your heart sing! Maybe it’s cooking, or dancing, or playing music, or running…whatever it is, do it. Once you start fostering your own well-being, you’ll be more confident and receptive to cultivating a relationship with someone. It’s that openness that men really want to connect with!
After all, others learn how to love us by closely watching how well we love ourselves.