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Dating Over 50: What Men Want | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· March 25, 2021 

One of the problems I see happening with dating is women overcomplicate things way too much! Men are pretty simple in my experience and I’ve found 5 consistent things men want in a woman when dating over 50.

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Categories : Attraction, Dating, Relationships
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy
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Men Love This Quality! | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· March 23, 2021 

Jaki Playing ChessOne of the many things I’ve learned in my career over the years is that playfulness is a feminine quality that men love. They appreciate a woman who can be carefree and spontaneous, ready to take on a fun new adventure! I know my husband Michael loves that side of me.

It probably won’t surprise you to learn, however, that lately I just haven’t felt very playful. and I realize I’ve been more serious and somber than usual. And no matter how much I try to balance the stress of current events with good things and joy, it’s been taking a toll on me. Are you in the same boat? I know MANY women who are.

I’m focusing on amping up my playfulness factor this month, both for my well-being and for my family’s. I invite you to do the same! Think of how happy you were as a kid after a day spent running around outside, playing in a sprinkler, bike riding, even reading under a shady tree. You can recapture that feeling even now.

There are plenty of little things your can build into your days that can bring a lighter mood and a smile to your face. You need that – we are living through an incredibly stressful time. 

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Here are a few things I’m planning to do to bring back my sense of play! They’re easy and can make a big impact on your mood and outlook.  

  • Cranking up the tunes –  I love good old rock and roll! I can’t wait to tell Alexa to play my favorite 80’s rock playlist and dance around my kitchen with Michael.
  • Taking long walks – Sometimes for exercise, sometimes just for daydreaming. Either way, so much of my joy comes from nature that I am going to be intentional about making this a priority. It never fails to lift my spirits.
  • Dressing up – Even if it’s just jeans with a nice tee and fun jewelry to wear around my house, dressing up has always felt like play for me! June Cleaver used to wear a dress and pearls to cook dinner – you don’t have to go that far but it could be fun to dress up and make yourself a super fancy cocktail!

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  • Meeting up with friends on Zoom – This is a great way to reconnect with friends near and far. Laughing about old times is fun! You can even play games like Pictionary or have a trivia contest.
  • Taking Zumba classes – This is a big one. Nothing feels better than when I’m moving my body! Many gyms are now holding outdoor and virtual online classes – check one out! The music is so fantastic you just can’t help moving to the beat. Even if you think you have two left feet, I urge you to try this fun form of exercise. 
  • Getting more laughs– With so many streaming options to choose from, I’ll have no problem finding comedies old and new to crack me up. There are lots of stand-up comics to be discovered there as well! I’m not in the mood for any tear-jerkers right now (I feel like I get enough of that feeling just reading headlines) – I need some belly laughs!
  • Dreaming – Yes! In the midst of this changing world, I’m going to start changing myself too. The first step in that process is dreaming of future goals and where I want my life to go. I’m going to put together a vision board to help focus my efforts and make my dreams a reality. Try it – it’s fun to dream of the future (especially when the present seems a bit scary and uncertain)!

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This is just a starting point, and I’m sure you have some ideas of your own. If you have a minute, drop me a line and let me know how YOU are going to recover your sense of playfulness. I want to know!

Remember- you landed here because a loving relationship with a man who adores you is one of your most important life goals. 

When you awaken your sense of play, you become irresistible! He is navigating this crazy world too! Men don’t talk about it as much, but they are feeling the heaviness just as much as we are.

And when he sees you, light, carefree and reveling in feminine playfulness, you will be the exact breath of fresh air he’s craving right now!

Categories : All About You, Attraction, Dating
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy

How to Stop from Getting Friend Zoned | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· January 19, 2021 

I’ll never forget the night a friend of mine came to me in tears! She had been at happy hour with a man she had a huge crush, listening to him talk about his day, fantasizing about what it might be like to be married to him when all of the sudden he said the thing that broke her heart. “Oh Amy,” he said tenderly and genuinely, “you are SUCH a good friend.”

OUCH! 

Here she was, wedding planning in her mind while the whole time he was thinking of her as a buddy. It’s so disheartening and honestly, it can make a woman question herself, her worth, even her femininity! 

Here are three things you can do to avoid getting boxed into the friend zone!

  1. Avoid talking too much about frivolous things– This is the number one thing that causes a man to see you as a friend. Women make the mistake of thinking men love to hear all about you, your life, your thoughts, your plans, your outfits. You get the idea. If you’re constantly asking for his advice or giving HIM advice, he’ll start to see you as a sounding board, not a potential romantic partner.  
  2. Wear dresses – Dial up your outfits if you feel you’re getting friend-zoned. When you put on a dress it immediately separates you from your guy’s other friends. Dresses scream “WOMAN” and men love them. You’ll feel more feminine and he’ll feel more masculine and he will see you as a lady and not a friend. This works like magic.  I know it sounds simple but try it and watch what happens!
  3. Avoid Oversharing – This is a huge problem when dating and it’s about boundaries. When you over-share not only is it a turnoff but you’ve taken away a very important aspect of attraction! Mystery and intrigue. They may listen but they could lose respect for you and tune you out. Save the oversharing for your girlfriends

I’ll never tell you to be fake, but who doesn’t appreciate a little extra effort. Turn up the charm, send those attraction signals and you’ll quickly shift from buddy to BABE!

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Categories : All About You, Attraction, Confidence, Dating, Relationships
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy

Video Dating Ice Breakers | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· December 16, 2020 

Are you feeling discouraged and overwhelmed? There was a moment earlier this week that I was feeling that too, and I had to take STOP and take a spiritual time out. 

In this video, I give you a few tips on how to stay more present and avoid the “rabbit hole” thinking that typically ends with you feeling even worse!  

I also give you some tips on how to break the ice on video dates so make sure you click below to watch the video:

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Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy

Use the LOA to Attract Your Soulmate | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· November 12, 2020 

Everything you think say and do is being broadcast out to the universe and it comes back as pictures in your life.  Your life reflects what you’ve been thinking about!  

Most of your thoughts (until you become conscious of them) are very negative, for example,  “I’m not good enough”  There are no good men” “It’s not safe to open my heart.” 

Today’s video we examine the most predominate thoughts that may be sabotaging you and what to do about it! Click here to watch the video now.  

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Categories : Attraction, Dating, Relationships
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy

Become a Fantastic Lover… to YOURSELF! | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· November 10, 2020 
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We’ve all had a lot of time this year to be alone with ourselves, haven’t we?  

It’s an uncomfortable place to be for many of us, for sure. However, when you’re trying to find a solid, lasting relationship with the man of your dreams, self-reflection is paramount.  

It takes courage but being authentic with potential partners is the only way to sustained happiness. You don’t want to be exhausted by trying to be someone you’re not just to keep a man! In fact, you won’t get a quality man by faking things! High-quality men are attracted to women who know their own value. There’s no better way to prove that you know your worth than by recognizing and celebrating your unique qualities and quirks!  Show you know your own value – recognize and celebrate your uniqueness and quirks and become the best version of yourself!
 

Solitude doesn’t have to feel lonely. The key is to use that time to get into an intimate relationship with YOURSELF!  

Some ways to do this: 

  • Take care of your mind and your body. No, you don’t have to be model thin. This is about feeling good through exercising, eating healthy food, getting enough sleep, and trying to be present and mindful. A healthy body and a healthy attitude are irresistible – your energy emanates from you effortlessly! 
  • Know your non-negotiable boundaries and don’t be afraid to use them! Set boundaries when you date. In other words, don’t be a doormat and don’t be afraid to speak up if you feel less than respected or uncomfortable with a situation. Quality men will admire you for knowing your limits and sticking with them. 
  • Even if you’re in the throes of new love, always maintain your own friends and interests. Continue to be your own person! Don’t apologize for taking time to pursue your own goals and hobbies or for spending time with the girls. If you bend and morph into someone who only does the things your man likes to do, before long he will find this boring and suffocating. More importantly so will YOU!!! Shared interests are wonderful, of course, but only if they happen organically. 
  • Surrender to the ever-changing flow of life. See it all as an adventure! Don’t push too hard. Relax into the flow of the universe and know things are working FOR you, always! If things don’t work out with a man, it’s ok. While it can be painful, it means only that he was not for you long-term, and you can take the lessons learned to move closer to finding the ONE.  
  • Be confident in YOU. When you approve of yourself (and if you live authentically, this is automatic!) you won’t need to seek external approval from a partner. This is so attractive to men! You aren’t a little girl looking for permission to live as you want – you are a fully formed woman who’s in charge, confident, wants a partner to compliment her life, not run it for her! 

Most of us have been conditioned over YEARS that we need to fit a certain mold, live a certain way, look a certain way, to land a man.  

I want you to break out of that thinking! The only person who’s ultimately responsible for your happiness is you. Follow my tips above and you’ll see a change in yourself and your relationships (AND the kind of men you’re attracting!). What changes are you going to make today to live more authentically? I’d love to hear about it!

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Categories : All About You, Attraction, Relationships
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy

How to Stop from Getting Friend Zoned

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· January 28, 2020 
· No Comments

I’ll never forget the night a friend of mine came to me in tears! She had been at happy hour with a man she had a huge crush, listening to him talk about his day, fantasizing about what it might be like to be married to him when all of the sudden he said the thing that broke her heart. “Oh Amy,” he said tenderly and genuinely, “you are SUCH a good friend.”

OUCH!

Here she was, wedding planning in her mind while the whole time he was thinking of her as a buddy. It’s so disheartening and honestly, it can make a woman question herself, her worth, even her femininity!

Click here to take the soulmate assessment and find out what vibe you’re sending out!

Here are three things you can do to avoid getting boxed into the friend zone!

  1. Avoid talking too much about frivolous things– This is the number one thing that causes a man to see you as a friend. Women make the mistake of thinking men love to hear all about you, your life, your thoughts, your plans, your outfits. You get the idea. If you’re constantly asking for his advice or giving HIM advice, he’ll start to see you as a sounding board, not a potential romantic partner.
  2. Wear dresses – Dial up your outfits if you feel you’re getting friend-zoned. When you put on a dress it immediately separates you from your guy’s other friends. Dresses scream “WOMAN” and men love You’ll feel more feminine and he’ll feel more masculine and he will see you as a lady and not a friend. This works like magic. I know it sounds simple but try it and watch what happens!
  3. Avoid Oversharing – This is a huge problem when dating and it’s about boundaries. When you over share not only is it a turn-off but you’ve taken away a very important aspect of attraction! Mystery and intrigue. They may listen but they could lose respect for you and tune you out. Save the oversharing for your girlfriends

I’ll never tell you to be fake, but who doesn’t appreciate a little extra effort. Turn up the charm, send those attraction signals and you’ll quickly shift from buddy to BABE!

Love,

Jaki

 

Click here to take the soulmate assessment and find out what vibe you’re sending out!

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Categories : All About You, Attraction, Dating, Feminine Essence, Relationships
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy, relationships

New Year, New You!

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· December 31, 2019 
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This isn’t going to be one of those posts that encourages you to throw out the old you and do something totally different. And it’s not to push you to do things that feel completely foreign and make you soooo uncomfortable.

What I want to suggest though, is that you look at the possibility of being a “new you” as adding to what’s already wonderful! You are amazing exactly as you are, and I want you to know that. But I also want you to know that everyone has something that they would like to change. And acknowledging that and working toward a change for the better is wonderful!

So let’s start in that direction by looking at the one thing that you probably have had on your list for a long time: you want to build a strong, healthy relationship with the man you’ve been looking for. Great! Here are three ways that you can make changes for the better, small changes, that can help you call him into your life this year.

  • Practice gratitude. It’s amazing the difference practicing gratitude makes in your life! And I don’t just mean telling someone “thanks” for holding the door. Really sit in this feeling of gratitude. In the quiet moments, reflect on all the people and things in your life that you truly appreciate. Supportive friends, never-ending summer (hey, that’s real for some people!), your favorite food, even the way the sun shines through the windows of your living room. When you appreciate the little things, you call in more to be thankful for. Even the stuff that you may not appreciate normally like being caught in traffic are an opportunity for gratitude! If you’re in traffic, you have to slow down, and that’s a chance to take a deep breath and relax. Be thankful for new things this year!
  • Be spontaneous. If you always have to book things weeks in advance, then this is definitely for you! Leave a little space in your calendar for being spontaneous. If the mood seizes you, call some girlfriends for lunch, ask a friend to meet you for drinks, head to a new part of town with your cousin. And remember: you’re also leaving space for someone to ask you, “Can I take you to dinner tonight?”
  • Try one new thing. New things don’t stick if they are jarring and uncomfortable, so start small. Make a list of things that you would like to try or that you think you would enjoy, and just pick one to do. It doesn’t have to be anything outlandish. It could be as simple as jogging on a new trail or stopping by an organic-only grocery store. Expanding your idea of what works in your life opens you up to stretch your comfort zone in new ways, which makes it easy to welcome in someone new.

When you feel like a whole new you full of gratitude, trying new things, and ready to be spontaneous, you’ll find yourself enjoying life more and more! And what’s more attractive than a woman having a blast just being herself?

I have something exciting coming up that I can’t wait to share it with you. Join my email list to make sure you get the notification because you won’t want to miss it!

Love,

Jaki

 

 

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