In this video I talk to you about:

What to Do When He Acts Distant

It’s a situation that is all too common. You’re seeing a guy, it could be casual or serious, and then he starts acting distant. At first, you think maybe you’re being paranoid, so you try to ignore the signs. But denial can only take you so far and soon enough you have to admit that it’s not your imagination!! 

I will teach you how to overcome your fears and empower yourself so you can connect with men with grace and ease. This allows you to create a deep emotional connection that leads to a commitment!

These are some of the concepts I teach in my signature program Engaged at Any Age^®. Just click here to schedule a call with me and discover if Engaged at Any Age^® is right for you!

In this video I talk to you about:

Three Mistakes Women Make in Relationships!

If you want a harmonious relationship you need to avoid these three mistakes that can sabotage your relationship.

I will teach you how to overcome your fears and empower yourself so you can connect with men with grace and ease. This allows you to create a deep emotional connection that leads to a commitment!

These are some of the concepts I teach in my signature program Engaged at Any Age^®. Just click here to schedule a call with me and discover if Engaged at Any Age^® is right for you!

In this video I talk to you about:

How to Solve Relationship Problems

You’re going to encounter problems and the key is to learn how to solve them so they don’t tear you apart!

I will teach you how to overcome your fears and empower yourself so you can connect with men with grace and ease. This allows you to create a deep emotional connection that leads to a commitment!

These are some of the concepts I teach in my signature program Engaged at Any Age^®. Just click here to schedule a call with me and discover if Engaged at Any Age^® is right for you!

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a situation and sat back to analyze why, you’ve probably realized that fear lies at the heart of the problem. Fear can keep us from moving forward with a job, a move, a new idea, and especially a relationship. Fear can also keep us in the wrong situation for far too long!

I don’t want you to live in fear any longer because I KNOW that you want to get out there and find the one for you! Yes, it can be scary, but you know what? It can REALLY be fun too!

Here are 3 fears that can keep you stuck and single (or with the wrong guy)  AND how to get over them!

• Fear of the Unknown—Your current comfort zone is a box of your limiting beliefs— and 95% of them are unconscious—yet we hate taking risks because we don’t want to step out of our comfort zone. You’re probably not even consciously aware of what’s stopping you from having what you want, though. And even worse, you’re not willing to look at those limiting beliefs because they make you feel bad. You’re addicted to the knowns in your life, and that leaves no room for change.

What to do: You have to start taking bigger risks and showing up with a lot more emotional courage if you want to be in a relationship with your Soulmate. Soulmate relationships require you to take more emotional risks because that’s how you create more intimacy in your relationship.

• Fear of Rejection—This fear is just a way to avoid yourself and try to make another responsible for giving you the love, acceptance, approval, and worth you crave. Or you’re denying yourself those things because you do not know how to give those things to yourself, so you can hide in rejection. It’s easy, and it’s also lazy.

What to do: Try thinking of rejection as “re-direction” and give yourself the love and acceptance you need to feel safe enough inside to step out of your comfort zone and take more risks that include men. When you don’t take responsibility for how you feel, then the only person who ever rejects you is you.

• Fear of Being Hurt—When you fear being hurt, you are unconsciously giving your power to those who have hurt you before and letting them determine FOR you whether you have WORTH after something painful has occurred. The truth is that you NEED to have someone dispense forgiveness, approval and acceptance to you that is controlling you and keeping you from letting go and moving on.

What to do: It’s time to empower yourself with this healing paradox:

It’s not your fault, but it’s your responsibility to heal.

When you take the reins of your life back into your own hands, you will discover how amazing you truly are, and when you do that, a man will too!

This is not an exact science but there are secrets to getting him to the alter! Let’s discuss this on today’s broadcast.

In this video we are celebrating our newly engaged couple Heather and Ed!! He popped the question on a trip to Hawaii! She followed the formula for success and look at her now! First time bride to be!

These are some of the concepts I teach in my signature program Engaged at Any Age^®. Just click here to schedule a call with me and discover if Engaged at Any Age^® is right for you!

If you’ve done any self-development work, then I’m sure you’re familiar with the phrase “your best self.” Living our best lives and being our best selves is an ongoing process, and we have to start somewhere.

It’s especially important to start this process if your best life includes your soulmate. Focusing on yourself and getting ready to welcome him into your life—yes, I want you to act as if you KNOW that he’s coming soon—means that you will be ready for the joy of a relationship and be confident in your energy and your ability to attract him.

This process is a lot like nurturing a flower. Since its spring, I thought this was the perfect analogy for how we need to do the work to get to where we want to be.

• Seed — We start our growth process by making a decision to start the work. This is when we first get the idea to work on ourselves to improve our lives and our chances of finding the right man.
• Sprout — This is our commitment to unpacking layer after layer of beliefs, “truths,” and hurt. To sprout from the seed and break through the soil, the seed needs the right conditions. It needs water and nutrients and warmth. Till spring, the seed lays dormant, waiting for its chance. Women need to burst through the seed coat and soil this spring and start caring for ourselves—physically, mentally, and spiritually. Get your nails done, eat a salad instead of Doritos, and read that book that’s collecting dust. Feed your soul and show yourself you care for and love yourself. When you love yourself, you tell others how to treat you. You also allow others to love you as much as you love you.

• Blossom — Once you have strong roots anchoring you in positive energy and caring for you as only you can do, you will notice yourself blossoming. Much like the spring flowers bursting into bloom, everyone will take notice. A positive, strong woman has control of the parts of her life that she can control. She actively seeks what she wants to add to her life to make it even more amazing. She knows how to set boundaries, say “no,” and embrace her gifts. This is how you achieve your best life.
• Maintenance and watering — Blossoming isn’t the end of the journey. Remember that you need to care for the plant once it has achieved what you want. Making the rituals of self-care a way of life will help you maintain this beautiful new way of living. Just like brushing your teeth, you need to love yourself every day, even if it just means 5 minutes of meditation first thing in the morning. Teach yourself that you are worthy . . . and that you are worthy of maintaining and growing more.

Sometimes it seems like those seeds you plant in the spring take forever to bloom, but it is always worth the wait! You, too, are worth the wait. This is the time to plant the seeds and start transforming your life. Loving yourself means that you can then accept others into your life who will love you the way you want to be loved!

These are some of the concepts I teach in my signature program Engaged at Any Age^®. Just click here to schedule a call with me and discover if Engaged at Any Age^® is right for you!