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Archive for Feminine Process

How Women Ruin Valentine’s Day | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· February 9, 2021 

With Valentine’s Day rapidly approaching, I’ve been hearing from many ladies that they’re unsure of how to navigate the day. 

Maybe you’re wondering the same!

You know how you’d like to celebrate and may even have some bling in mind for your guy to give you as a gift. Yet, the ghosts of Valentine’s past spring up and you don’t know if you should just keep quiet and let him take the lead or give a subtle hint about what you’re hoping for. 

One woman I know is already feeling disappointed because he hasn’t said anything – but neither has she! 

You don’t have to stay silent, ladies! Men are not mind readers, and while Valentine’s Day can be full of love and fun, it’s also a holiday that puts a LOT of pressure on men. If they don’t do enough, they’re in trouble. If they go overboard, they can also be in trouble (if it scares their partner off!). 

Do them a favor and speak up so there’s little chance for confusion or disappointment on either of your parts. As we know, men are not known for their mind-reading abilities. This isn’t the time to hint around. They either won’t notice or worse, will find it annoying! Use a Valentine’s ad on tv as a springboard if you want, but from there nothing beats the direct approach. What would feel best to you? A night out? A sparkly new necklace? A weekend away? Go over in your mind the possibilities and see what your gut tells you. You’ll know what the sweet spot is, where you get what you want, and he feels appreciated by giving it to you. 

Don’t let another Valentine’s Day go by without beginning your Soulmate Journey – go here to find out how to make your next Valentine’s your best!

It’s important, however, to not use a hammer to drive home your expectations! Instead, use your feather. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again – gentle guidance wins the day. Your current man isn’t to blame for your past Valentine’s Day disappointments so don’t go into complaining mode and give him the impression that he better deliver – or else! Better to give him some ideas of some special gifts you’d love, or the name of a new restaurant you’d like to try, or…well, use your imagination! If you wrap your request around words of excitement and joy that you’re so happy to have him to celebrate the day with, he will want to come through for you. 

Isn’t this a much better scenario than finding out on February 13th he got a reservation somewhere you hate, on the 15th, because the place was full for Valentine’s Day? Or receiving a bouquet of flowers when you’re allergic? Or a gold necklace when you’re partial to silver? 

Don’t be afraid, to be honest, and get your needs met this Valentine’s Day! May it be a day full of love and light for you this year. 

Don’t let another Valentine’s Day go by without beginning your Soulmate Journey – go here to find out how to make your next Valentine’s your best!

 

Categories : All About You, Feminine Essence, Feminine Process
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy

Connecting With Your Feminine Energy | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· January 7, 2021 

In today’s video I talk about the power of your feminine energy and why men respond so naturally to it. 

Click below to watch the video:

Go here to join my Free Ladies Club Facebook group and you’ll always have someone to talk to, someone who shares your goals and dreams and wants you to succeed!

 

Categories : All About You, Feminine Essence, Feminine Process
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy

Combat the Holiday Blues! | Engaged at Any Age

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· November 24, 2020 

The holidays might look different, but the desire to share them is the same!

Pandemic or no pandemic, the holidays are coming!

And even though the celebratory social whirl that comes along with that might not be the same this year, the messages we receive are the same – among them, that the holidays are a time of romantic and joyful togetherness. It’s in our social media feeds, Hallmark movies, and commercials. And it can be relentless. I’d say that this is the hardest time of the year to be single.

I remember many Decembers myself where I longed for someone special to curl up with me and watch cozy holiday specials by the fire or meet me under the mistletoe.

That’s why I’m using this space today to share some ways to beat the holiday blues and enjoy the season. Sometimes all it takes is a shift in your mindset to change things around!

You can use this special time of the year, in fact, to practice extra self-care and give yourself extra love. Relax, recharge, and share your joy with others (even if it’s through Zoom!).

To avoid feelings of loneliness:

1. Stay in touch with potential quality men you meet online. The holidays themselves are a great source of conversation topics! Special childhood memories, crazy traditions, hopes for 2021, favorite holiday treats…the list is endless. With COVID limiting dating, it’s actually less pressure on a budding relationship through this time of year! You can enjoy someone’s virtual company without the added stress of “do I buy him a gift?” or “do I ask him to dinner with my family,” etc. etc.! Put on a gorgeous top, have a glass of eggnog, and continue getting to know some people! You may be busier in the new year than you can even handle!

  • (An addendum to this is, show up for any Zoom “parties” you might be invited to. You just never know when a great guy will be in one of those little squares! And if not, it’s so easy to sign off.)

2. Take advantage of the free time you may now have in your schedule to cater to one person – you. It’s natural to be disappointed when long-anticipated parties or events are canceled but maybe you’re also a little relieved! Read that novel on your nightstand. Cook yourself your favorite meal. Nap. Work out. Meditate. Clean your closet. Ask yourself what would make you feel happiest – and do those things!

3. Remember that this too shall pass. Meaning both the pandemic and your single state. It’s hard to be patient in the face of the unknown, when there is no firm answer to the age-old question of “WHEN???” Keep your eyes focused forward and keep working towards your goal of finding that special someone. Remember, he’s out there somewhere in the same boat as you, wondering when you will arrive, and how, and hoping that next year he will be kissing you at midnight on New Year’s Eve!

You can be by yourself without feeling totally alone or full of self-pity. It’s ok to have some moments of doubt, of course, but try to limit them! You are so very special, and there IS a man out there who deserves you.

BONUS TIP-

Wanting is the opposite of HAVING.

So, focus on gratitude for what you DO have this holiday season and you will raise your manifesting ability sky high!

Cheers!

Categories : All About You, Confidence, Feminine Process
Tags : Affection, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy

How to Get a Second Date

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· May 10, 2019 
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In this video I talk to you about:

How to Get a Second Date

Can you relate to feeling the tension, uncertainty, desire, and even the fear that comes up before a first date? Well how do you harness that so you get on a second date? I know your intention is to enjoy yourself and his company and to have fun. But it doesn’t always turn out like you hope. I want to share the common pitfalls that keep you from getting asked our again during my live coaching.

I will teach you how to overcome your fears and empower yourself so you can connect with men with grace and ease. This allows you to create a deep emotional connection that leads to a commitment!

These are some of the concepts I teach in my signature program Engaged at Any Age®. Just click here to schedule a call with me and discover if Engaged at Any Age® is right for you!

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Categories : Attraction, Beliefs, Confidence, Dating, Feminine Process, Relationships

What to Do When He Acts Distant

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· May 3, 2019 
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In this video I talk to you about:

What to Do When He Acts Distant

It’s a situation that is all too common. You’re seeing a guy, it could be casual or serious, and then he starts acting distant. At first, you think maybe you’re being paranoid, so you try to ignore the signs. But denial can only take you so far and soon enough you have to admit that it’s not your imagination!! 

I will teach you how to overcome your fears and empower yourself so you can connect with men with grace and ease. This allows you to create a deep emotional connection that leads to a commitment!

These are some of the concepts I teach in my signature program Engaged at Any Age®. Just click here to schedule a call with me and discover if Engaged at Any Age® is right for you!

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Categories : Attraction, Beliefs, Confidence, Dating, Feminine Process, Relationships

Three Mistakes Women Make in Relationships

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· April 26, 2019 
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In this video I talk to you about:

Three Mistakes Women Make in Relationships!

If you want a harmonious relationship you need to avoid these three mistakes that can sabotage your relationship.

I will teach you how to overcome your fears and empower yourself so you can connect with men with grace and ease. This allows you to create a deep emotional connection that leads to a commitment!

These are some of the concepts I teach in my signature program Engaged at Any Age®. Just click here to schedule a call with me and discover if Engaged at Any Age® is right for you!

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Categories : Attraction, Beliefs, Confidence, Dating, Feminine Process, Relationships

How to Solve Relationship Problems

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· April 19, 2019 
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In this video I talk to you about:

How to Solve Relationship Problems

You’re going to encounter problems and the key is to learn how to solve them so they don’t tear you apart!

I will teach you how to overcome your fears and empower yourself so you can connect with men with grace and ease. This allows you to create a deep emotional connection that leads to a commitment!

These are some of the concepts I teach in my signature program Engaged at Any Age®. Just click here to schedule a call with me and discover if Engaged at Any Age® is right for you!

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Categories : Attraction, Beliefs, Confidence, Dating, Feminine Process, Relationships

3 Fears That Keep You Stuck and Single

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· April 16, 2019 
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If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a situation and sat back to analyze why, you’ve probably realized that fear lies at the heart of the problem. Fear can keep us from moving forward with a job, a move, a new idea, and especially a relationship. Fear can also keep us in the wrong situation for far too long!

I don’t want you to live in fear any longer because I KNOW that you want to get out there and find the one for you! Yes, it can be scary, but you know what? It can REALLY be fun too!

Here are 3 fears that can keep you stuck and single (or with the wrong guy)  AND how to get over them!

  • Fear of the Unknown—Your current comfort zone is a box of your limiting beliefs— and 95% of them are unconscious—yet we hate taking risks because we don’t want to step out of our comfort zone. You’re probably not even consciously aware of what’s stopping you from having what you want, though. And even worse, you’re not willing to look at those limiting beliefs because they make you feel bad. You’re addicted to the knowns in your life, and that leaves no room for change.

What to do: You have to start taking bigger risks and showing up with a lot more emotional courage if you want to be in a relationship with your Soulmate. Soulmate relationships require you to take more emotional risks because that’s how you create more intimacy in your relationship.

  • Fear of Rejection—This fear is just a way to avoid yourself and try to make another responsible for giving you the love, acceptance, approval, and worth you crave. Or you’re denying yourself those things because you do not know how to give those things to yourself, so you can hide in rejection. It’s easy, and it’s also lazy.

What to do: Try thinking of rejection as “re-direction” and give yourself the love and acceptance you need to feel safe enough inside to step out of your comfort zone and take more risks that include men. When you don’t take responsibility for how you feel, then the only person who ever rejects you is you.

  • Fear of Being Hurt—When you fear being hurt, you are unconsciously giving your power to those who have hurt you before and letting them determine FOR you whether you have WORTH after something painful has occurred. The truth is that you NEED to have someone dispense forgiveness, approval and acceptance to you that is controlling you and keeping you from letting go and moving on.

What to do: It’s time to empower yourself with this healing paradox:

It’s not your fault, but it’s your responsibility to heal.

When you take the reins of your life back into your own hands, you will discover how amazing you truly are, and when you do that, a man will too!

 

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Categories : Attraction, Beliefs, Confidence, Dating, Feminine Process, Relationships
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