How you do one thing is how you do all things!
Spring being in the air never fails to give me a sense of hope and renewal! To that end, I decided recently to undergo a 21-day cleanse to give my body a reset. Little did I know it would help reset my mind, too! I’ll be kicking up my heels on Maui tomorrow, but for the first ten days of the program, I pretty much ate fruits and veggies only, staying hydrated with water. I was able to add in fish protein for the final week and WOW, I love seafood but I have never been so happy to eat it! To adhere to such a strict plan, even for just 3 weeks, was tough.
It was a real commitment to stay with it! But it was that commitment that helped me stay on track and keep my word to myself. I wanted to do this to feel fresh and renewed at the end of the 3 weeks. I’m happy to say, in spite of being tested mentally and physically every day, I didn’t falter, and was rewarded with five pounds gone and better sleep than I’ve had in years. I feel so great, in fact, that I am going to stay on this path!
I tell you all of this because, as I reflected on the past few weeks, I’m reminded of how women need to commit to a plan, a strategy, to find real love and create healthy relationships.
How you do one thing is how you do all things! If you find yourself unwilling to COMMIT to PLAN when it comes to diet and exercise or to your career, you will likely find yourself stumbling along, making mistakes, giving up too easily, and wasting time with the wrong men.
I get it, I do. Sometimes it’s easier to give in and go on a date with the wrong guy just to have something to do, or avoid feeling lonely.
But when you have a set goal – a lifetime with the man you were meant to have – and a plan to follow, those low times with “easy outs” are outweighed by clarity and resolve! You feel better and better each day and have a sense of pride for sticking with your commitment. PLUS – when you stay on track, you will be rewarded at the end with the relationship you’ve always wanted.
So let me ask you – do you have a Man Plan? Or are you just “winging it?” Think of how you’re feeling right now. Are you happy with how things are going? If not, you are due for a reset of your own to get you back on track for finding the RIGHT man for you.
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