Ah, dating. To paraphrase Charles Dickens, it can be the best of times and the worst of times!
The thing I want you to remember is that no matter what, each and every date you go on is a learning experience.
It’s continuing education in the School of SELF!
Think of dating as a self-help course in life skills, with the benefit of getting out of the house and hopefully having fun. When you date with intention, and take lessons from each experience, you become educated about yourself in a way that prepares you to thrive in a long-term relationship!
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As you date a variety of men, I want you to debrief with yourself after you get home from each meeting. What went well? What wasn’t so great? Dates, even (maybe ESPECIALLY!) the bad ones, are a wealth of information that can tell you how you like to be treated and help you set boundaries and maintain high standards.
Watching a man interact with others while you’re on a date with him can be quite illuminating. How does he treat the parking attendant or the wait staff at the restaurant? Does he try to order for you (and if so, how do you like that?)?
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Does he reach over to try your entrée without asking? Even something like excusing himself (or not) to wash his hands before dinner can be telling you valuable information about who he is!
Dating should be fun, not a source of stress!
Try to just relax and allow it to open your eyes to new experiences and new ways of thinking about your future relationship. Every date you go on – even if it’s one where you “get a headache” and end the evening early – is one step closer to THE date – the one that leads you to your soulmate!
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