September has arrived, and with it, kids all over the country are loading up their backpacks for a new round of learning.
Even if it’s been years since you’ve set foot into a classroom, today, I’m taking you back school to learn the “3 R’s” – but they’re NOT reading, writing, or arithmetic!
These 3 R’s are going to unlock the power of your feminine energy in a way you’ve never experienced before, and it’s this power that will finally allow you to get close to your dream man.
Our first R stands for one of my favorite words – RELAX!
It seems to me that humanity is having a crisis of fear and anxiety. Fear about the future, anxiety about past mistakes…and constantly living in a heightened state of “what if?” Imagine if you became an exception to this way of living? Start appreciating the moment and watch your magnetism soar! I don’t have enough space in this blog post to enumerate all the studies that show what men want most from women is to have fun! If you approach dating with a deep breath and a commitment to go with the flow, instead of walking on eggshells and worrying about “where things are going,” YOU will enjoy yourself more, and so will HE. In fact, he probably won’t be able to get ENOUGH of you! Men want to be around women who feel great about themselves and spread that positivity to them! Dating is supposed to be a positive experience, not a long slog that you force yourself through.
Next up – Receive.
This is a tough one for many successful, self-sufficient women like you. But I’m telling you, it’s a biggie! Cultivating your ability to receive gracefully will allow you to surrender to what’s unfolding in your relationship, without feeling the urge to be controlling or putting forth some masculine energy. Allow yourself to accept what he’s offering! Give this essential feminine quality the space to bloom. When you do, it’s a win-win – he gets to be your hero, while you get to see how (and IF!) he will step up. This is a CRITICAL piece of information that can help you see if this guy is a long-term fit for you! Besides, sometimes it’s just lovely to let someone else “take care of business.”
The final R is for Radiate.
I want you to remember this important fact: your value is not in prancing around trying to get others to accept you. Your worth is in your own self-love and self-acceptance. So, start acting like it! Nurture your soul, take care of your body and mind, and put the world on alert that yeah, you really ARE worth it. When you fall in love with yourself, the men will fall right in line behind you! They love a confident woman who sees the value within her soul. It’s ironic that it’s often when you feel fulfilled on your own, Mr. Right waltzes right in to add the icing on the cake. I have seen it happen time and again!
There you have it. RELAX. RECEIVE. RADIATE.
Sounds like a great way to live, doesn’t it?
October 14th of last year- I met my fiance in a coffee shop 3 blocks from my apartment…at 730 am… on a Sunday. I was not dolled up, in fact just wearing a pair of workout pants and zip up
hoody barely combed hair and just a little mascara … all that to say… I wouldn’t say I looked “hot” that day😉… BUT… I walked in with a smile on my face and a book in my hand just happy to be alive and feeling very thankful for the blessings of health, vision and hearing… I mean I was REALLY feeling grateful that day in particular.
I stop down at the table and started reading with my new found treasure. (I LOVE reading and learning). Anyway Connie Matt, my swing to the husband got up and walked across the room and said “you look like you are really enjoying what you are reading! “
And I was ! I excitedly gave him a few tidbits from the book and he asked if could sit down… I noticed he had a kind and beautiful smile and pretty blue eyes. We visited 2 hours and then he asked if I would like to go for a bike ride or walk later that day… we rode 25 miles, talked and asked each other questions… just had fun! The cool part is Matt wasn’t not some incredible looking “macho hunk type” like o would have previously been drawn to. He was and is just a lovely human with the best heart and is stable, calm and works on himself. We grow together and learn together. We look at our issues and apologize when we fail.
He becomes closer to my heart each day… we are good friends and deeply love each other. We are what I would call average people just going through life and because We were OPEN to friendship and love we found both! It’s a joy to grow through this last year together. There’s several few moments of “push and pull”
and struggles to leave past wounds behind, but we are finding our way. I am Thankful!!!
So happy for you! All that delicious gratitude just created a white light around you and you were irresistible!
This is awesome!