When it comes to relationships with men, you may be experiencing one of two problems.
Either you want to be in your feminine energy but you don’t know how to invite a man into that, or you’re not attracting men because you don’t invite yourself to be in the feminine!
Whichever issue you’re having, you need to change things up. Despite what the messages of the outside world may be telling you, it’s ok to show your softer, nurturing side!
Actually, it’s something you must do…men are drawn to women who aren’t afraid to show the kindness and compassion within themselves. It’s also ok to want to feel secure and comforted by your partner.
Part of bringing out your feminine essence is un-doing a cultural bias against what our feminine heart is longing for. Are you brave enough to let yourself know what you want without cultural judgement?
Visualize the things a man can do for you that would allow you to feel more feminine. This might include opening doors for you, giving compliments, asking you about what makes you happy, or creating a space where you feel secure. Don’t be afraid to want these things, and expect them!
Some women are hesitant to let a man lead a bit. They have been tricked into thinking that’s a weakness. Nothing could be further from the truth. When you CHOOSE to let a man lead, you are choosing from a place of relaxed confidence. And that’s a beautiful thing!
Here are some easy-to-remember tips when you’re out and about that will help you stay in your feminine energy. You need to utilize your natural gift of femininity, and this is how to do it so you don’t turn him off before you turn him on!
• Lean back when speaking, with your hands relaxed in your lap
• Let him lead
• Talk about things that you are passionate about
• Really listen to him when he speaks, with direct eye contact
• Invite him into a deeper connection by sharing a vulnerability (e.g., “I’m really nervous”)
There’s a key word in that last tip – connection. You are looking for a place where you can share and he can get on board, and vice-versa. Remember, conversations are not conclusions they are explorations! So relax, open up and allow attraction to take its course.
You are about to find out how powerful your feminine energy really is – enjoy it!