We all know women who seem to just have a “way” with men.
Yes, some of us are just born with it.
The good news is, you can LEARN it…and once you do, you’ll surprise yourself with how fast you catch on! You can be one of “those” women who always seems comfortable and always seems to have the attention of every man in the room!
Women who attract and keep men know that it’s all about these four principles of seduction:
- Appreciation:
You can’t lay this on thick enough. Men love to play the hero, even when the heroic act is something as simple as vacuuming or picking up dinner. Treating these every day actions like he just carried you up Mt. Everest will do wonders for his mood…and make him a shoo-in to keep WANTING to do more for you!
- Admiration:
Tell him you admire something he’s doing. Example: “I really admire how attentive you are to your kids.” This will make him feel like a man – something they all crave – and he will connect that to you. Besides, who doesn’t adore someone who tells them they’re doing something well?
- Acceptance:
You need to remember that it’s important to convey to a man that you accept him for who he is, not what he can do for you. In fact, the more accepted he feels, the more likely it is that he will want to do more for you! You won’t even have to ask!
- Affection
I don’t know a man in the world that doesn’t want a woman to touch him. Think of ways to introduce more incidental but meaningful physical contact into your days. Stroke his arm as you walk by, steal a quick kiss, tousle his hair gently…whatever feels right to you. We all need to be touched and embraced, and the more you do it, the more connected you’ll both feel.
It’s ok to start slowly with these! Try one at a time and see the changes…you’ll be excited to build from there, I promise!
Before you know it, other women will be looking at YOU and thinking “Wow, how does she DO that?”
xo
Jaki
Excellent ways