How did she do it?

I have decided to start sharing some celebrations with you. I realized recently that I am lucky enough to work with people on the thing that matters MOST to them- LOVE. And it’s beautiful! So why not share and inspire with the ladies who have done it in the hopes that others will see the possibilities that are all around!

Today I want to celebrate one of my clients, Shirley, who found love and companionship with her Ideal Man on Match.com (just like I met my Michael!)

After being single for 5 years she decided it was time to attract her man and started working with me in June.  After two and a half months of deliberate dating she met “the one”.

He already took her to Upstate New York to see the beautiful scenery and fall foliage that paints the landscape.

He is taking her to Paris to ring in the New Year (he already bought the tickets!).  They are making plans!  She’s meeting his family.  They are in love and it’s that beautiful romantic kind of love that she thought she’d never find.

You’ve been there right? I used to read the romance novels and think to myself, “NO one like that exists in real life!”

So how did she do it?

She did it deliberately.  Consciously and intentionally, that’s how.  I have heard a lot of well-meaning advice that says “Just be patient. When the time is right you’ll meet him.”

Let me be clear- waiting is lazy!

Shirley followed a process.  A step-by-step proven set of actions that led to her expected end result; her man!

It’s not magical, mystical or mysterious!

·        It’s understanding the Laws of the Universe

·        It’s presence

·        It’s clearing out your emotional debris

·        It’s tapping into your feminine energy

·        It’s the art of enchantment

“Listening was the key.  I’m a very successful, strong independent woman.  I have a tendency to talk a lot. Once I learned the art of conscious listening I was able to stay quiet and create a space for him to enter, and he did.”

“I finally kept quiet and gradually he started to talk about himself and he opened up to me and I smiled.”

“Jaki taught me how to stay in my feminine energy”

I wanted to share this celebration with you because I know that you want the same- a love that allows you to be YOU, that cherishes you, romances you, completes you.

Most women spend time deliberately choosing their outfit for the next day. We plan our meals. We deliberately choose our shoes. So why would leave the most important thing- love- to chance?