Do you ever feel like you need to put “Serious relationship inquiries only” on your online dating profile? Does it seem like most of the guys out there are just looking for a hookup?
If that resonated with you, I’m sure you are feeling the frustration. You meet someone with potential, and he’s perfect on paper, but when you want to meet him, he asks you to come over for “a movie and cuddles.” Seriously?
I don’t care if he is a math professor and a model—that is NOT what you’re looking for. And you deserve so much more.
Finding a guy who wants something more than a casual hook up when you meet them in the real world may seem like a challenge, but those guys really are out there. It is easier to talk about intentions online than in real life, so when you talk to them, let them know what you’re looking for. Be honest.
Usually, they will be honest, too, if they are only looking to hook up (after all, they aren’t going to meet their goal with you!). Then you don’t have to worry about wasting your time on a “date” that is heading in the wrong direction.
But a word of caution, name, don’t settle! If you suspect that he’s only looking to hook up, trust your gut, and don’t waste your time. And if you go out with a guy who only wants to hook up, don’t do it thinking that you can change his mind. Remember, men are pretty stubborn. If he wants a hookup, that’s probably all he wants!
You know what you want. Don’t compromise!
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