You’ve got a 50% chance of finding love.
Why? Because you’re a bit…prone to swimming on the surface. Depth is a little scary, so you keep things casual, chase the fun and shy away from the deep intimacy that commitment requires. You keep things light because the surface is safer. You may date a LOT, in fact men love to date you because you radiate fun and have few expectations. But the LASTING relationship you want requires readiness. Courage. A willingness to dive in with both feet.
Your living in the role of the Butterfly, flitting place to place on the lookout for the next thing that will feel good to you. Your goal is to embody the MERMAID, the woman who doesn’t fear depth and knows that the most fun and the greatest adventures happen when you lean ALL IN to the right man.
It is absolutely possible to go deep without giving up your light-hearted look on life. And you’ll be glad you did.
Your Current Strengths: Adventurous, fun, light, open-minded.
Your Shadow Side: Fear of intimacy, Escapism, Self-sabotage
Your Mentor Match:
Goldie has been one of the most beloved actresses for decades! She is sweet, funny, vivacious and you get the feeling that she’d be a blast to hang out with. She has had a few great loves and several children and she tends to march to the beat of her own drum…and it WORKS for her!
She has been with her partner Kurt Russel for a whopping 36 years!
That said, they never married, because Goldie was content to leave their union OFF paper. They also reportedly have separate wings of the home so that they can each maintain their space and independence.
Like Goldie, you are a good time!
You like your freedom and keep your boundaries strong. Just remember that freedom and intimacy are NOT mutually exclusive. Open up to finding a man who, like Kurt, respects your need for space but inspires you to be vulnerable, loyal and committed!
You can indeed have it all when you stop seeing a man as a threat and start seeing him as an equal partner.
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