Your mind can be your best friend or your worst enemy. That’s no secret.
It has recorded every mistake or misstep you’ve ever made, and sometimes, like to bring up them up time and time again, sabotaging you in your efforts to find love and making you believe you’re undeserving of it.
This mind trickery is affecting your sense of self-worth, and it plays out in many ways.
For example, you may find that it’s easier to give than to receive. You might be shying away from pursuing really good looking men. You may even be passing up opportunities, or cutting promising ones short because you feel they’re too good to be true and won’t last anyway.
But you can stop this pattern of destructive thinking in its tracks.
First, if you step back and observe your life you will discover that you don’t get what you deserve – you receive no more or no less than you believe you deserve.
Remind yourself that you are NOT your past mistakes! Try repeating this mantra to yourself: “I choose where I am now and I choose something better for myself.”
Say it until that little nagging and negative voice in your head is quiet.
The change in your attitude and self-confidence will be palpable. You’ll be freed from those self-imposed difficulties that are holding you back from true happiness!
Shifting your perception of your own value, and what you deserve out of life, will open you up to receive life’s bounty regardless of any mistakes you made in the past.
And let’s face it – a self-confident woman who believes she deserves the best is way more attractive than one who wallows in self-pity and past mistakes!
I believe in you!
The question is, do you believe in you?