Whether you’ve been single for a few days or a few years, it can sometimes feel like you’re NEVER going to find the right man. I remember years ago, before I met Michael, when I would start feeling down about finding someone I wanted to build a long-lasting relationship with, and all I wanted to do was cry.
At that time in my life, I really relied on having someone in my life to make me feel loved, worthy, and happy. Thankfully, I realized that I could be all of that on my own, yes without a man, so I could be who I was at my core and THEN call in the man I wanted in my life.
But when we are walking into a bar and seeing the same three guys sitting there or scrolling through a dating app and saying “nope, nope, nope,” you may wonder if you’re the only one looking. I mean, really, is your man even trying? Is he actively hunting for you?
When you say it out loud, it might seem comical! Women out there looking for the ideal man for them, and a room full of men just playing video games, waiting for women to find them!
But the truth is that your man is out there, right now!, looking for you, too. He really is.
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Here are some tips for staying positive and attracting him, just in case he spots you before you spot him.
- Everything happens in its own time. You may not feel like being patient, but you really have to be. If you aren’t in a loving relationship right now with a man who you want in your life for the long-haul, then chances are, you aren’t ready for him yet. Do a little work on yourself while you’re waiting. Enjoy spending time doing what lights you up. Spend time with your friends and family, and really embrace life. When you’re ready, he’ll come.
- Stay distracted. Though the holidays tend to be the time when single women feel the loneliest, they are also the time with the most available distractions. Take your nieces and nephews to see a movie. Enjoy hot chocolate with your skiing friends. Volunteer at the Santa booth at the mall or the local soup kitchen. Write a list of things that light you up and try to work in at least one a week. Doing things that feed your soul, keep you laughing, and wear you out in a good way are the way to go when you’re waiting for your miracle.
- Don’t book yourself into totally being unavailable. On the flip side of being distracted is the need to have a little down time too! Make sure you keep a couple evenings or weekend times open just in case you get an invite for cocktails or ice skating or whatever you’re into. Being busy is good, but booking up completely isn’t good either. Save space for dates, and they will eventually come along. Remember, he’s looking for you!
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Enjoy the beautiful parts of the holiday season alone or with friends and family, and you will call him in soon enough!
Love,
Jaki
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