Have you ever noticed that when we tune in, start using our powerful inner guide, and give our thoughts and intentions directed and focused time, the Universe tends to give us exactly what we ask for?
Hypothetically, you can create whatever you want.
But the key is KNOWING exactly what it is that you truly want because you are aware of who you truly are.
Manifestation is a like the old Genie’s tale– you have to be careful what you wish for.
And as I say often, manifestation is BE, DO, HAVE, which is that you attract what you are, not what you want.
So let’s talk about this in context to manifesting and creating the man of your dreams.
Are your wants and needs in a significant other aligned?
Here’s what I mean by that.
You need to be careful you’re not craving the unpredictable, free spirited, sexy bad ass, (former) Bachelor Clooney, when in reality you know you need Super- Dad, Super- Partner, world philanthropist Brad Pitt. Not sure how to differentiate the characteristics between the two and what you’re looking for?
Here’s what I suggest:
Make a list of qualities you ideally want in a partner. Write them down.
As you go through the list, ask how each of these qualities will serve the relationship and serve you.
Intuitively ask yourself how each of these qualities makes you feel.
You like to go to bed with your partner by your side at 9:30 pm, but you may think you want (and end up dating) a man who stays out late smoking Cigars at the Jazz Club-
Is this truly an instance of having your wants/ needs aligned?
Or do you simply like the idea of this late night man? Is this man a projection of how you wish yourself to be, or who you truly are? If this man was your partner, how would this scenario make you feel?
The more you evaluate the qualities in regards to how they best serve you and the relationship, the more you’ll conceptualize and grasp who it is that you truly WANT because you’ll narrow down who it is that you truly are at your core.
You can’t expect the Universe to just know who to manifest for you. It’s really busy helping out others who know exactly WHO they want. So start streamlining, start creating, start listing and aligning. The man of your dreams is out there, waiting for you to attract him.