Do you want to know my secret to attraction?
Wouldn’t it feel great to have a man be so interested and attracted to you?
Attraction has the power to draw a man to you.
It’s not your looks.
It’s not what you do.
It’s not how interesting and intelligent you are.
It’s your essence! It’s your being-ness!
There are important and powerful beliefs that create attraction. It’s your beliefs about yourself that trigger a very powerful response in a man. They tell a man that you are women who is self-loving and self-confident.
These beliefs communicate that you have a “high self value” and this value creates worth and elevates you in the eyes of a man.
It’s what you are saying without actually saying it. You say it with the way you carry yourself and the way you connect with a man.
This makes you irresistible!
These are beliefs that you actually believe to be true about yourself and your life.
For example:
- You don’t get triggered by a man who talks about his ex. You know that his comments hold a lot of information on where he is in his own healing process
- You don’t withdraw when a man’s behavior triggers you. You’ve done enough of your own emotional healing that you can recognize your triggers and don’t let them shut your heart down.
- You move on and leave a man before you’d stay in dysfunctional relationship. You know how important integrity and trust are and if that trust is broken you let him know by protecting your boundaries.
- You know how to connect with a man on a deep emotional level. You have done enough self-improvement that you have cleared out your emotional blocks and there is a space of love inside you that he can connect with.
All of these qualities create intense attraction with a man. You are not afraid to show who you really are because you know that you are amazing and he does too!
Wouldn’t it feel great to have a man be so interested and attracted to you?
The only thing that is stopping that from happening is YOU! You are the common denominator in all of your relationships.
If you don’t have a deep intimate relationship with yourself you can’t create a deep intimate relationship with a man.
This level of attraction requires specific beliefs and behaviors about yourself that you already have but have not fully developed.
You can develop and amplify these qualities that will make a man want to be with you and, only YOU!
Stop rationalizing “rational lies” that if you just keep wishing and hoping things will work out for you they will!
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