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Dating Trend you Need to know

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· February 26, 2020 
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Is He Bread-crumbing You?  

Ladies, there is yet another new dating buzz word that I need you to be aware of. It’s called bread-crumbing, and in my opinion, it’s even worse than ghosting! Why? Because as painful and irritating it is to be ghosted, at least you know it’s time to move on. With bread-crumbing, a man keeps you hanging on through the least amount of effort he can – in effect, tossing you crumbs – and leaves you wondering if he really wants to date you, or if you’re just a back-up plan.

You may know it as being strung along. He gives you just enough attention to keep you around, running hot and cold, depending on his whims and his schedule. Not cool at all! Here are some red flags to look out for to guard against this obnoxious behavior! 

Take the Swipe Right Quiz and find out if you’re blocking your dream man by making online dating mistakes. hyper link to quiz.

  • You get sporadic communication from him – a text here, a DM there (oh do they love the DMs!)…and not on a daily basis. It’s almost like these guys have ESP. When you finally get fed up with the inconsistency, they sense it and crank up the contact for a few days in a row or a week. You get your hopes up and then – crickets for days. Again. Ugh!! Remember, it takes only seconds to send someone a text; if he can’t even do that, do you really think he’s planning a fabulous weekend away with you?
  • He isn’t one to make concrete plans a week ahead of time (or ever in some cases!). He knows he doesn’t have to because you’re so into him that he can drop you a line at 7 pm on Friday, asking if he can stop by later that evening…and you know what he’s looking for. Don’t be his booty call! 
  • He often cancels plans you do manage to make, and you get the impression he got a better offer—multiple times. 
  • He becomes offended if you point out his rotten behavior. Then, to prove he isn’t doing it, he will pour on the attention for a little while. That is until you’re comfortable. Get ready to pick up those crumbs again! 
  • Your BS meter is going through the roof! Women know when we aren’t someone’s priority. The trouble is, we often fall into the trap of thinking we can change the behavior. That if we just give him some time to see how wonderful things could be, he’ll come around. I want you to stop doing this. Pay heed to that inner voice that’s tipping you off about the middle-of-the-night texts that say “thinking of you” when he hasn’t thought enough to actually to see you in person in weeks! Don’t make excuses for him. 

Take the Swipe Right Quiz and find out if you’re blocking your dream man by making online dating mistakes. hyper link to quiz.

Friends, your time and love are just too precious to waste on low-quality men who play games like this! The cost of maintaining contact with someone who bread-crumbs comes in the form of uncertainty and anxiety, never wanting to be without your phone lest you miss a message from him, or keeping your calendar open in case he has some free time. It’s not happening! You deserve better than this manipulative situation (and believe me, it is – there’s plenty of forethought!)  

Please know that there are quality men out there who, like you, have had enough of the games and who know time is valuable. Stop collecting those crumbs! Tell this guy his little birdie is flying the coop… and mean it. 

Take the Swipe Right Quiz and find out if you’re blocking your dream man by making online dating mistakes. hyper link to quiz.

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Categories : All About You, Dating
Tags : attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, breadcrumbing, confidence, dating, law of attraction, online dating

3 Things to Never Tell a Man

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· January 21, 2020 
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Men are pretty infamous for putting their foot in their mouths. I can’t tell you how many women have complained to me that their man said something silly or offensive or insensitive and the poor guy has NO idea what he did wrong.

Well the truth is, woman make these same mistakes.

And men are just as aggravated by it! Here are three things you should never say to a man, especially if you’d like to see him again:

  1. You remind me of a man I dated (or ex)– No one wants to be compared to someone else, especially someone you had a relationship with. Men won’t forget a comparison, and instead of enjoying their time with you, they’ll wonder if you’re keeping score the whole time. Men don’t want to have to work too hard for anything, so if they even think they are in some kind of competition, they will not take it as a fun challenge but rather an annoying position to be in. Sports are the only time a man is interested in being competitive. When you compare to someone who didn’t stay in your life, you are essentially saying “You remind me of someone I don’t want to date.” Would you want to hear that?
  2. My ex was such a jerk! – Even if they were really bad don’t go there. You’ll have him thinking you blame others for everything and you don’t take responsibility for your own life. Or worse, he may draw the conclusion that you are bitter or that you ‘re still talking about him because you’re not over him!
  3. This one guy I slept with… – This could easily come up, especially if you are moving to get intimate but the past is over and men don’t want to know about your past lovers. It’s a huge turnoff. They will wonder if they are measuring up. And even if you’re saying something negative about a past encounter, they will wonder if you’re being critical of them too! It’s best to keep the focus on the man in front of you… or on top of you. 😉

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Much Love,

Jaki

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Categories : All About You
Tags : attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love

Getting Unstuck After a Breakup

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· November 16, 2017 
· 5 Comments

If you are like most women you’ve struggled with (or still are) some of these issues

  • Feeling shell shocked after your last relationship
  • Feeling powerless and invisible
  • Feeling like a looser
  • Holding on which is keeping you from moving forward

When you don’t move on when a relationship ends you grant the relationship the power to consume your life and create misery not to mention the time you waste! Sometimes it can be decades.

In this call I will give you a set of strategies for reclaiming your power, recover yourself, your vitality and self-worth!

I would love to hear from you about what you are struggling with so I can create more videos to support you!

Sending you lots of love!

xoxo

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Categories : All About You, Dating, Relationships
Tags : attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, attract your soulmate, breakups, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, happiness is attractive, relationship, self-love, unstuck

The Fastest Way to Turn a Man Off! 

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· November 9, 2017 
· 3 Comments

I know you were probably expecting I would tell you the fastest way to turn a man on and into you so that he will commit to you however.. you need to understand what is sabotaging your efforts so that you can address it.

I’m all about helping you solve problems. Life is a series of self help obstacles! Your job is to get good at solving problems.  I’m committed to helping you hone this skill.

Click below to watch my Facebook Live Video

Do you unintentionally turn the keys to your significance over in dating and relationships?

When you turn the keys to your ‘significance’ over to a man you are sure to turn him off before you turn him on.

In this video I share:

  • How to avoid giving up your power
  • The fastest way to create intimacy with a man who will commit to you
  • How to maintain your high value status
  • How to stop the mood swings in dating

I would love to hear from you about what you are struggling with so I can create more videos to support you! Leave a comment below.​​​​​​​

Sending you lot’s of love!

xoxo

 

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Categories : Relationships
Tags : Attract, attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, attract your soulmate, become Mrs. Right, beliefs, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy, grateful, gratitude, happiness is attractive, Jaki Ives, Jaki Sabourin, Men, relationship, turn him off, turning him on

Are you cut out for dating? Video Training

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· November 2, 2017 
· 1 Comment

I’m all too aware that dating can feel like a grinding, painful roller coaster to nowhere.

I know many of you become disenchanted with dating or are too scared to even try so I wanted to give you some support and share a tool that will help you stay out of overwhelm and fear!

Click below to watch:

If you’ve hit your head against the wall as many times as I have, you know how frustrating, depressing, and downright disheartening it can be. Meeting someone new, going on a few great dates, getting excited, having one/both of you sort of stop calling; then repeating the process over and over is enough to make you want to give up for good.

The ups and downs in this cycle can make you feel like you are unbalanced and have whiplash. While it can be fun to go on a bunch of dates with different people, it can also make you feel like you’re floating alone on your own little island of solitude.​​​​​​​

In this video I share:

  • How to avoid the dating emotional roller coaster
  • How to keep the tension on so he asks you out again and again
  • How to turn rejection into redirection
  • How to stop being so serious

I would love to hear from you about what you are struggling with so I can create more videos to support you! Hit reply to this email and tell me what you need clarity on!​​​​​​​

Sending you lot’s of love!

xoxo

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Categories : Dating
Tags : attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, attract your soulmate, become Mrs. Right, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy, happiness is attractive, Jaki Sabourin, love, relationship

How your dysfunctional family might be holding you back

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· October 19, 2017 
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Listen in on this conversation about dysfunctional families and how to break free from constricted roles and self-defeating beliefs that are stopping you from having a life you love.

I’m chatting with my friend and colleague, Todd Creager ​​​

Many of you may already know Todd, he’s a licensed clinical social worker and licensed marriage and family therapist.

He is known as a couple’s specialist and also helps single people break from toxic relationships and get into healthier ones.

Todd has seen many of his clients (both individuals and couples) came from families that were dysfunctional.

As a result, he created a video: 7 Signs You Come From a Dysfunctional Family

He was astonished by how many people have watched that video.

Over 51,000 views to date and the number just keeps growing and growing…

So many people have thanked him and said that it helped them understand and stop being so hard on themselves.

In our conversation, you will hear Todd talk about:

  • What he means by dysfunctional
  • How you may have inherited roles that limit your life
  • How it could affect your current relationship
  • How to begin to break free from constricted roles and self-defeating beliefs

You’ll get to hear the man who has helped shift thousands of lives teach you how to shift yours and you’ll get the details about his program >>HERE<<

xoxo

 

P.S.  Ready to break free?  Get more details on the program and sign up >>HERE<<
Stop wondering why you are so hard on yourself and get some advice that will help you break free!

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Categories : All About You, Beliefs, Confidence, Create the Life You Want
Tags : attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, dysfuntional, feminine energy, happiness is attractive, Jaki Ives, Jaki Sabourin, Men, relationship, Todd Creager

Your Accelerated Path to Find Love

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· October 17, 2017 
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I watched the movie Wonder Women last night on my flight back home from New York City to California.  My daughter and I spent the weekend in the Big Apple with some of the women from my amazing community of “Wonder Women” and it really got me fired up!

Why? Because I share the same mission that Wonder Woman does…to bring peace and love back to humanity’s heart!

She makes her impact by actually learning from and sharing her experiences.Wonder Woman has a clear vision for how she’s going to accomplish this, but soon learns that she has to accomplish it in another way.

The theme of the movie is simple— that we’re not in this world alone. And we need each other.

So what does this all have to do with YOU attracting LOVE into your life?

When you are calling in your soulmate it’s the same mission.

You are first bringing peace, love and LIGHT into your own life.

You are not looking for the sun outside of yourself.

You have to bring your own light to the equation.

You have to be the sun! Not a moon that reflects someone else’s light.

To date with confidence – You are finding out if a man is someone who likes being in your kind of light. And you are not necessarily looking for someone who is already tuned into to you, but observing if he can repair any missteps and maintain sustained interest and enthusiasm.  In dating you want to be interested, not interesting.

There’s a big difference.

Be interested in him, who he is as man, the life he’s lived. If you’re spending time trying to be interesting you are in your head and that would explain why you don’t emotionally connect with a man. He wants to connect to your sun and heart not your head.

This is the biggest mistake successful women make.

They lead with interesting instead of interested because that feels safe and familiar.

Learning to lead with your heart and shining your light from within will draw a man straight to you like bees to honey.

Looking to Activate Your Super Powers to Attract Love?

My mission is to help strong, successful Wonder Women just like you learn how to lead from your heart, stay in your power and become irresistible to quality men!

If you’re looking to find your Soulmate love and you’re ready to do the work I can help you.

I’m opening my calendar to speak with a select few women who would like to work with me privately. This is a quick call to discover if we are a fit to work together.

My private program is an intense accelerated path to finding your soulmate. It’s for smart, successful women that need help in the areas of love and relationships. You have everything in life figured out except the love piece.
If you know this is what you want, get on the phone with me.

Click here to chat and I will send you a short questionnaire to fill out before our call.

Love,

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Categories : All About You, Attraction, Dating, Relationships
Tags : Attract, attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, confidence, fall madly in love, feminine energy, happiness is attractive, Jaki Ives, Jaki Sabourin, relationship, Wonder Woman

Two little things that practically guarantee commitment

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· October 13, 2017 
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Like many people, you’ve probably wondered what it is that makes a man truly want to commit to a woman. It’s natural to think that there is some trick, some catch, that makes some women worthy of a lasting relationship and leaves the rest of us, well, eating Ben and Jerry’s and watching a chick flick alone on a Saturday night.

Well, I’m here to tell you that there IS a special secret sauce to the love game! There are two very important components that you must have to inspire a man to fall in love.

And, this should come as no surprise: you don’t have to be drop dead gorgeous to have commitment. I mean, come on, look at the divorce rate in Hollywood.

So what is it that makes men fall in love and finally commit? How do you catch the guy and get him to stay?

First, you must show up as a high-value woman. He has to believe that you are better than other women out there. You have to believe in yourself and present yourself as confident. You have to value yourself to make others believe that you are truly high-value.

A woman who believes in herself knows that she has flaws, but she also knows that she has traits and talents worthy of praise. She has interests that she is passionate about. She feels comfortable with herself. She loves herself. For a man to know your value, you have to present yourself as someone with value.

Now here’s the catch: a high-value woman can also feel unapproachable or cold. That’s why you have to pair this trait with the other must-have to truly make a man fall in love and then commit.

What is that trait? Vulnerability.

This is what allows you to connect with someone on a super deep level. A woman who is vulnerable is in touch with her emotions and is willing to open up about them. This is what lets a man truly connect with you and feel like he should stay. Vulnerability gives a man a desire to protect you. Not only do you have high value, but you also need him around. That works WITH his primal instincts!

Being open and honest on this level can be scary, but pushing past that allows for a deep connection.

Though we may feel like this is contradictory to the strong, modern woman ideal—and hey! We can certainly be strong and take care of ourselves!—there has to be balance. You can be a strong, successful woman and still be vulnerable in your relationship. Showing your connection with emotions helps a man see that he is needed and wanted. A man who thinks you can completely take care of yourself doesn’t exactly have a reason to stick around, right?

Sounds so simple, right? High-value and vulnerability are a winning combination that practically guarantees commitment!

Want to figure out how you can do it, too? Let’s schedule a time to talk! I’d love to help you succeed at the love game!

XO

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Tags : attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy, happiness is attractive, high-value woman, Jaki Sabourin, vulnerability
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