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Archive for happiness is attractive

New Year, New You!

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· December 31, 2019 
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This isn’t going to be one of those posts that encourages you to throw out the old you and do something totally different. And it’s not to push you to do things that feel completely foreign and make you soooo uncomfortable.

What I want to suggest though, is that you look at the possibility of being a “new you” as adding to what’s already wonderful! You are amazing exactly as you are, and I want you to know that. But I also want you to know that everyone has something that they would like to change. And acknowledging that and working toward a change for the better is wonderful!

So let’s start in that direction by looking at the one thing that you probably have had on your list for a long time: you want to build a strong, healthy relationship with the man you’ve been looking for. Great! Here are three ways that you can make changes for the better, small changes, that can help you call him into your life this year.

  • Practice gratitude. It’s amazing the difference practicing gratitude makes in your life! And I don’t just mean telling someone “thanks” for holding the door. Really sit in this feeling of gratitude. In the quiet moments, reflect on all the people and things in your life that you truly appreciate. Supportive friends, never-ending summer (hey, that’s real for some people!), your favorite food, even the way the sun shines through the windows of your living room. When you appreciate the little things, you call in more to be thankful for. Even the stuff that you may not appreciate normally like being caught in traffic are an opportunity for gratitude! If you’re in traffic, you have to slow down, and that’s a chance to take a deep breath and relax. Be thankful for new things this year!
  • Be spontaneous. If you always have to book things weeks in advance, then this is definitely for you! Leave a little space in your calendar for being spontaneous. If the mood seizes you, call some girlfriends for lunch, ask a friend to meet you for drinks, head to a new part of town with your cousin. And remember: you’re also leaving space for someone to ask you, “Can I take you to dinner tonight?”
  • Try one new thing. New things don’t stick if they are jarring and uncomfortable, so start small. Make a list of things that you would like to try or that you think you would enjoy, and just pick one to do. It doesn’t have to be anything outlandish. It could be as simple as jogging on a new trail or stopping by an organic-only grocery store. Expanding your idea of what works in your life opens you up to stretch your comfort zone in new ways, which makes it easy to welcome in someone new.

When you feel like a whole new you full of gratitude, trying new things, and ready to be spontaneous, you’ll find yourself enjoying life more and more! And what’s more attractive than a woman having a blast just being herself?

I have something exciting coming up that I can’t wait to share it with you. Join my email list to make sure you get the notification because you won’t want to miss it!

Love,

Jaki

 

 

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Categories : All About You, Attraction, Confidence, Create the Life You Want, Feminine Essence
Tags : confidence, dating, feminine energy, happiness is attractive

Getting Unstuck After a Breakup

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· November 16, 2017 
· 5 Comments

If you are like most women you’ve struggled with (or still are) some of these issues

  • Feeling shell shocked after your last relationship
  • Feeling powerless and invisible
  • Feeling like a looser
  • Holding on which is keeping you from moving forward

When you don’t move on when a relationship ends you grant the relationship the power to consume your life and create misery not to mention the time you waste! Sometimes it can be decades.

In this call I will give you a set of strategies for reclaiming your power, recover yourself, your vitality and self-worth!

I would love to hear from you about what you are struggling with so I can create more videos to support you!

Sending you lots of love!

xoxo

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Categories : All About You, Dating, Relationships
Tags : attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, attract your soulmate, breakups, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, happiness is attractive, relationship, self-love, unstuck

The Fastest Way to Turn a Man Off! 

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· November 9, 2017 
· 3 Comments

I know you were probably expecting I would tell you the fastest way to turn a man on and into you so that he will commit to you however.. you need to understand what is sabotaging your efforts so that you can address it.

I’m all about helping you solve problems. Life is a series of self help obstacles! Your job is to get good at solving problems.  I’m committed to helping you hone this skill.

Click below to watch my Facebook Live Video

Do you unintentionally turn the keys to your significance over in dating and relationships?

When you turn the keys to your ‘significance’ over to a man you are sure to turn him off before you turn him on.

In this video I share:

  • How to avoid giving up your power
  • The fastest way to create intimacy with a man who will commit to you
  • How to maintain your high value status
  • How to stop the mood swings in dating

I would love to hear from you about what you are struggling with so I can create more videos to support you! Leave a comment below.​​​​​​​

Sending you lot’s of love!

xoxo

 

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Categories : Relationships
Tags : Attract, attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, attract your soulmate, become Mrs. Right, beliefs, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy, grateful, gratitude, happiness is attractive, Jaki Ives, Jaki Sabourin, Men, relationship, turn him off, turning him on

Are you cut out for dating? Video Training

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· November 2, 2017 
· 1 Comment

I’m all too aware that dating can feel like a grinding, painful roller coaster to nowhere.

I know many of you become disenchanted with dating or are too scared to even try so I wanted to give you some support and share a tool that will help you stay out of overwhelm and fear!

Click below to watch:

If you’ve hit your head against the wall as many times as I have, you know how frustrating, depressing, and downright disheartening it can be. Meeting someone new, going on a few great dates, getting excited, having one/both of you sort of stop calling; then repeating the process over and over is enough to make you want to give up for good.

The ups and downs in this cycle can make you feel like you are unbalanced and have whiplash. While it can be fun to go on a bunch of dates with different people, it can also make you feel like you’re floating alone on your own little island of solitude.​​​​​​​

In this video I share:

  • How to avoid the dating emotional roller coaster
  • How to keep the tension on so he asks you out again and again
  • How to turn rejection into redirection
  • How to stop being so serious

I would love to hear from you about what you are struggling with so I can create more videos to support you! Hit reply to this email and tell me what you need clarity on!​​​​​​​

Sending you lot’s of love!

xoxo

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Categories : Dating
Tags : attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, attract your soulmate, become Mrs. Right, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy, happiness is attractive, Jaki Sabourin, love, relationship

How your dysfunctional family might be holding you back

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· October 19, 2017 
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Listen in on this conversation about dysfunctional families and how to break free from constricted roles and self-defeating beliefs that are stopping you from having a life you love.

I’m chatting with my friend and colleague, Todd Creager ​​​

Many of you may already know Todd, he’s a licensed clinical social worker and licensed marriage and family therapist.

He is known as a couple’s specialist and also helps single people break from toxic relationships and get into healthier ones.

Todd has seen many of his clients (both individuals and couples) came from families that were dysfunctional.

As a result, he created a video: 7 Signs You Come From a Dysfunctional Family

He was astonished by how many people have watched that video.

Over 51,000 views to date and the number just keeps growing and growing…

So many people have thanked him and said that it helped them understand and stop being so hard on themselves.

In our conversation, you will hear Todd talk about:

  • What he means by dysfunctional
  • How you may have inherited roles that limit your life
  • How it could affect your current relationship
  • How to begin to break free from constricted roles and self-defeating beliefs

You’ll get to hear the man who has helped shift thousands of lives teach you how to shift yours and you’ll get the details about his program >>HERE<<

xoxo

 

P.S.  Ready to break free?  Get more details on the program and sign up >>HERE<<
Stop wondering why you are so hard on yourself and get some advice that will help you break free!

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Categories : All About You, Beliefs, Confidence, Create the Life You Want
Tags : attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, dysfuntional, feminine energy, happiness is attractive, Jaki Ives, Jaki Sabourin, Men, relationship, Todd Creager

Your Accelerated Path to Find Love

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· October 17, 2017 
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I watched the movie Wonder Women last night on my flight back home from New York City to California.  My daughter and I spent the weekend in the Big Apple with some of the women from my amazing community of “Wonder Women” and it really got me fired up!

Why? Because I share the same mission that Wonder Woman does…to bring peace and love back to humanity’s heart!

She makes her impact by actually learning from and sharing her experiences.Wonder Woman has a clear vision for how she’s going to accomplish this, but soon learns that she has to accomplish it in another way.

The theme of the movie is simple— that we’re not in this world alone. And we need each other.

So what does this all have to do with YOU attracting LOVE into your life?

When you are calling in your soulmate it’s the same mission.

You are first bringing peace, love and LIGHT into your own life.

You are not looking for the sun outside of yourself.

You have to bring your own light to the equation.

You have to be the sun! Not a moon that reflects someone else’s light.

To date with confidence – You are finding out if a man is someone who likes being in your kind of light. And you are not necessarily looking for someone who is already tuned into to you, but observing if he can repair any missteps and maintain sustained interest and enthusiasm.  In dating you want to be interested, not interesting.

There’s a big difference.

Be interested in him, who he is as man, the life he’s lived. If you’re spending time trying to be interesting you are in your head and that would explain why you don’t emotionally connect with a man. He wants to connect to your sun and heart not your head.

This is the biggest mistake successful women make.

They lead with interesting instead of interested because that feels safe and familiar.

Learning to lead with your heart and shining your light from within will draw a man straight to you like bees to honey.

Looking to Activate Your Super Powers to Attract Love?

My mission is to help strong, successful Wonder Women just like you learn how to lead from your heart, stay in your power and become irresistible to quality men!

If you’re looking to find your Soulmate love and you’re ready to do the work I can help you.

I’m opening my calendar to speak with a select few women who would like to work with me privately. This is a quick call to discover if we are a fit to work together.

My private program is an intense accelerated path to finding your soulmate. It’s for smart, successful women that need help in the areas of love and relationships. You have everything in life figured out except the love piece.
If you know this is what you want, get on the phone with me.

Click here to chat and I will send you a short questionnaire to fill out before our call.

Love,

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Categories : All About You, Attraction, Dating, Relationships
Tags : Attract, attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, confidence, fall madly in love, feminine energy, happiness is attractive, Jaki Ives, Jaki Sabourin, relationship, Wonder Woman

Two little things that practically guarantee commitment

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· October 13, 2017 
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Like many people, you’ve probably wondered what it is that makes a man truly want to commit to a woman. It’s natural to think that there is some trick, some catch, that makes some women worthy of a lasting relationship and leaves the rest of us, well, eating Ben and Jerry’s and watching a chick flick alone on a Saturday night.

Well, I’m here to tell you that there IS a special secret sauce to the love game! There are two very important components that you must have to inspire a man to fall in love.

And, this should come as no surprise: you don’t have to be drop dead gorgeous to have commitment. I mean, come on, look at the divorce rate in Hollywood.

So what is it that makes men fall in love and finally commit? How do you catch the guy and get him to stay?

First, you must show up as a high-value woman. He has to believe that you are better than other women out there. You have to believe in yourself and present yourself as confident. You have to value yourself to make others believe that you are truly high-value.

A woman who believes in herself knows that she has flaws, but she also knows that she has traits and talents worthy of praise. She has interests that she is passionate about. She feels comfortable with herself. She loves herself. For a man to know your value, you have to present yourself as someone with value.

Now here’s the catch: a high-value woman can also feel unapproachable or cold. That’s why you have to pair this trait with the other must-have to truly make a man fall in love and then commit.

What is that trait? Vulnerability.

This is what allows you to connect with someone on a super deep level. A woman who is vulnerable is in touch with her emotions and is willing to open up about them. This is what lets a man truly connect with you and feel like he should stay. Vulnerability gives a man a desire to protect you. Not only do you have high value, but you also need him around. That works WITH his primal instincts!

Being open and honest on this level can be scary, but pushing past that allows for a deep connection.

Though we may feel like this is contradictory to the strong, modern woman ideal—and hey! We can certainly be strong and take care of ourselves!—there has to be balance. You can be a strong, successful woman and still be vulnerable in your relationship. Showing your connection with emotions helps a man see that he is needed and wanted. A man who thinks you can completely take care of yourself doesn’t exactly have a reason to stick around, right?

Sounds so simple, right? High-value and vulnerability are a winning combination that practically guarantees commitment!

Want to figure out how you can do it, too? Let’s schedule a time to talk! I’d love to help you succeed at the love game!

XO

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Categories : All About You
Tags : attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy, happiness is attractive, high-value woman, Jaki Sabourin, vulnerability

Let Love Grow!

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· April 19, 2017 
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In my part of the world, everything is blooming and it’s absolutely gorgeous!

I love digging my hands into the soil and getting my garden ready to go for another season.

The beauty that can grow from a tiny seed and some TLC amazes me year after year.

It’s not such a stretch to think about your love life as a garden that needs some tending.

For years, I let weeds grow around my heart and thought I was undeserving of true love and attention from a soulmate. It was my defense against being hurt again. Better to leave my emotions hidden in the tangles rather than prune those weeds and lay my feelings bare to the world, right?

Wrong! Oh, so wrong!

Yes, I was shielding myself from pain.

But I was also not allowing the sun to shine through to my heart.

Seeds can’t grow without sunlight.

I made the decision to start small, and let the seeds of hope and love take root in my soul. From there my emotional garden grew like it never had before!

So how is your personal garden? Not the one in your back yard – the one in your heart.

Could it use some pruning? Could it use some planting and care?

You’ve got to tend to yourself for anything at all bloom! Whether you want to grow your confidence, your purpose or a life-long love, you’ve to take the right steps in the right order:

Plant the seed for something new to grow, keep the soil healthy, water it regularly and generously give your time and love.

Something beautiful can grow for you when you start turning your attention to the seeds YOU want to plant!

Let the sun shine! It’s the only way to let love plant itself in your life.  Wanda committed to this exact process and her and Freddy and in full bloom!

Wanda & Freddy

“I look back on where I was last January, and I love how much I’ve learned about myself and my power to manifest what I want. Jaki’s program has fortified me with the tools I use to identify and maintain healthy personal boundaries with my children, my sister, my coworkers, and people I come in contact with on a daily basis. I have learned how to nurture and heal myself when life triggers me. This is MY power and my responsibility! I put my intentions on paper when I started the program last January, and I decided to live with integrity and be firm with myself about what I was doing. I declared out loud that I would be in a life long loving, committed relationship and married this year because I am enough and I deserve it! I met Freddy in the middle of my spiritual growth spurt. We’ve been together for nine months, and my whole life is better with Freddy in it! I am his Queen, and he is my King! I am so excited about my present and my future! Thank you for your guidance and your Love”. Wanda

Much love,
Jaki

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Tags : attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy, grow, happiness is attractive, law of attraction, life of your dreams, love, married, relationship
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