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Don’t be Afraid to Say Goodbye

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· March 2, 2020 
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Sometimes in the course of a relationship there comes what I call the point of no return. Maybe it’s yet another canceled date. Maybe he listened with half an ear yet again after he asked you about your day. Maybe he didn’t ask about your day at ALL! Whatever “it” is, your gut knows it and will tell you in no uncertain terms that it’s time to move on.

When I work with a client, I encourage her to be attuned to how a man “shows up” for her. Does he, for example, make plans and keep them (as opposed to saying he doesn’t care what restaurant she picks)? Remember how she hates mushrooms? Listen to her and ask follow-up questions when they talk? The definition of showing up is different for every woman, but if your man doesn’t do it early and often, it’s almost always better to break things off sooner rather than later!

“Easy for you to say, Jaki!” I know, I know. Hear me out.


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Of course, it’s hard to let go of the “known,” but remember that your pangs of regret and hesitancy are coming from a place of fear, not love. And we always, always want to operate from a place of love and acceptance. It’s best to pause and breathe and reframe an ended relationship, not as a waste of time but rather a lesson in which you gained clarity about what you don’t want. When you think of things that way, you reinforce your self-love and will resolve to go after what you really deserve next time! Let go of who isn’t for you, and you’ll have space and freedom to make room for someone better. It is that simple.

Are you still not sure it’s better to get out sooner? Here’s some perspective from one of my clients!
“I decided to end the relationship about a week ago. I found N. to be too intense and needy. He wanted my undivided attention and for us to be together ALL the time. He was controlling and jealous of my other relationships with friends and family. I became less attracted to him the more I got to know him. I discussed the issues and my concerns with him. Rather than working together on a solution, he told me he “needed more” from me! At that point, I knew there was no point in continuing the relationship. Yet, I am so thankful for having dated him, as I learned a lot about myself and what I do and don’t want in a relationship.”


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This is a perfect example of what I’m talking about. Instead of wallowing in fear and feeling uncertain if she did the right thing, my client now has clarity and feels HOPEFUL about what’s possible. She’s not clinging to N. as if he’s the only man on Earth – she knows he isn’t!

Besides, in this era of internet dating, your new possibilities are right there in a simple click or swipe – you just need to be open to them!

If you feel stuck and unhappy with who you’re dating, time to take stock, ask yourself if this is how you’ve dreamed a relationship would be…and if not, time to move on!

xo
Jaki

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Categories : All About You, Create the Life You Want, Dating, Relationships
Tags : Boundaries, Commitment, communication, dating, high-value woman, relationship, Self-worth, Space

Two little things that practically guarantee commitment

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· October 13, 2017 
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Like many people, you’ve probably wondered what it is that makes a man truly want to commit to a woman. It’s natural to think that there is some trick, some catch, that makes some women worthy of a lasting relationship and leaves the rest of us, well, eating Ben and Jerry’s and watching a chick flick alone on a Saturday night.

Well, I’m here to tell you that there IS a special secret sauce to the love game! There are two very important components that you must have to inspire a man to fall in love.

And, this should come as no surprise: you don’t have to be drop dead gorgeous to have commitment. I mean, come on, look at the divorce rate in Hollywood.

So what is it that makes men fall in love and finally commit? How do you catch the guy and get him to stay?

First, you must show up as a high-value woman. He has to believe that you are better than other women out there. You have to believe in yourself and present yourself as confident. You have to value yourself to make others believe that you are truly high-value.

A woman who believes in herself knows that she has flaws, but she also knows that she has traits and talents worthy of praise. She has interests that she is passionate about. She feels comfortable with herself. She loves herself. For a man to know your value, you have to present yourself as someone with value.

Now here’s the catch: a high-value woman can also feel unapproachable or cold. That’s why you have to pair this trait with the other must-have to truly make a man fall in love and then commit.

What is that trait? Vulnerability.

This is what allows you to connect with someone on a super deep level. A woman who is vulnerable is in touch with her emotions and is willing to open up about them. This is what lets a man truly connect with you and feel like he should stay. Vulnerability gives a man a desire to protect you. Not only do you have high value, but you also need him around. That works WITH his primal instincts!

Being open and honest on this level can be scary, but pushing past that allows for a deep connection.

Though we may feel like this is contradictory to the strong, modern woman ideal—and hey! We can certainly be strong and take care of ourselves!—there has to be balance. You can be a strong, successful woman and still be vulnerable in your relationship. Showing your connection with emotions helps a man see that he is needed and wanted. A man who thinks you can completely take care of yourself doesn’t exactly have a reason to stick around, right?

Sounds so simple, right? High-value and vulnerability are a winning combination that practically guarantees commitment!

Want to figure out how you can do it, too? Let’s schedule a time to talk! I’d love to help you succeed at the love game!

XO

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