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Let Love Grow!

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· April 19, 2017 
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In my part of the world, everything is blooming and it’s absolutely gorgeous!

I love digging my hands into the soil and getting my garden ready to go for another season.

The beauty that can grow from a tiny seed and some TLC amazes me year after year.

It’s not such a stretch to think about your love life as a garden that needs some tending.

For years, I let weeds grow around my heart and thought I was undeserving of true love and attention from a soulmate. It was my defense against being hurt again. Better to leave my emotions hidden in the tangles rather than prune those weeds and lay my feelings bare to the world, right?

Wrong! Oh, so wrong!

Yes, I was shielding myself from pain.

But I was also not allowing the sun to shine through to my heart.

Seeds can’t grow without sunlight.

I made the decision to start small, and let the seeds of hope and love take root in my soul. From there my emotional garden grew like it never had before!

So how is your personal garden? Not the one in your back yard – the one in your heart.

Could it use some pruning? Could it use some planting and care?

You’ve got to tend to yourself for anything at all bloom! Whether you want to grow your confidence, your purpose or a life-long love, you’ve to take the right steps in the right order:

Plant the seed for something new to grow, keep the soil healthy, water it regularly and generously give your time and love.

Something beautiful can grow for you when you start turning your attention to the seeds YOU want to plant!

Let the sun shine! It’s the only way to let love plant itself in your life.  Wanda committed to this exact process and her and Freddy and in full bloom!

Wanda & Freddy

“I look back on where I was last January, and I love how much I’ve learned about myself and my power to manifest what I want. Jaki’s program has fortified me with the tools I use to identify and maintain healthy personal boundaries with my children, my sister, my coworkers, and people I come in contact with on a daily basis. I have learned how to nurture and heal myself when life triggers me. This is MY power and my responsibility! I put my intentions on paper when I started the program last January, and I decided to live with integrity and be firm with myself about what I was doing. I declared out loud that I would be in a life long loving, committed relationship and married this year because I am enough and I deserve it! I met Freddy in the middle of my spiritual growth spurt. We’ve been together for nine months, and my whole life is better with Freddy in it! I am his Queen, and he is my King! I am so excited about my present and my future! Thank you for your guidance and your Love”. Wanda

Much love,
Jaki

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Categories : Attraction, Relationships
Tags : attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy, grow, happiness is attractive, law of attraction, life of your dreams, love, married, relationship

Why the WORST result can bring the BEST men

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· December 6, 2016 
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We’ve all been there.

We’ve all felt the sting of heartbreak. The emptiness. The uncertainty.

If this is how you are feeling now, stuck, unable to heal, I wrote this for you!

First, let me reassure you that you are in my heart and that the feelings you are currently feeling are temporary.

Yes, you are in victim mode – it feels that so much has happened TO you.

You are stuck in the blame/shame/victim game. And it’s ok. It’s a REALLY easy trap to fall into. You have suffered, and because of that, have come to believe that there are no good men out there  – or that if there ARE, they won’t like you, or want you.  You are afraid to take risks.  You feel “less than” or “not good enough,”  “inadequate” and afraid of rejection.

It’s hard for you to try again after previous rejections and heartbreak. You don’t know how to hold boundaries with men, so they treat you poorly – which reinforces that belief that there are no good men out there.  You always pick the wrong men and fear they won’t like you or will leave you. You pick men who are emotionally unavailable, needy or broken. You tend to attract men that don’t step up.

It’s exhausting, and eventually you start to believe that you are better off alone. But you know, deep down, that you are longing to share your life with someone. And you will!

Wow.  You hit the nail on the head.  Can I really fix this – and how?

This is a journey of personal growth and begins with focusing on yourself. Loving yourself as you are is vital. You’ve got to stop looking for someone else to fill the space in you. You are already complete. Repeat that – YOU ARE ALREADY COMPLETE.  YOU ARE ENOUGH.

A man isn’t the answer, he is a compliment. A bonus. The icing on the cake.  When you are in victim mode you send the message that the man is the answer and that’s a heavy burden that most men run from!

Remember, you come to this party already complete and whole and ready to have a real Soulmate connection. Your MAIN goal is self-work, self-love and self-acceptance.  You will need to heal the hurt from the past and release the hold it has on you. This will help you to learn to hold healthy emotional and physical boundaries and start to consider your own feelings and wants first  – which raises your self-esteem and creates more self- respect.   Remember, we allow people to treat us how they treat us, and men will start treating you the way you are treating yourself.  Any time you hear the negative put-downs swirling around your head, think about what you’d say to your best friend or sister or daughter if she were telling you these things about herself. Then rewrite the script with love. Cultivating a positive relationship with yourself is the building block for attracting your Soulmate.   You had given up on the idea that you’ll meet your Soulmate, but now you know that love is your birthright.

Allow that to sink in and look at your life for ways that you already feel love. Appreciate what is already there.  You are embracing new empowering beliefs and attracting your Soulmate is one of them.

And now, here is HOW we are going to remind you of the goddess that you are – and that you don’t NEED a man to be enough, you need a man to compliment the life and being that you are.

We will start with the forgiveness and gratitude circle.  A daily 5-10 minute exercise that will set the foundation for your day, and the rebuilding of your spirit.

What that means, is that you will take a few minutes to repeat the following sequence:

I forgive ______________ for_____________________

I forgive myself for____________________________

I am so grateful for____________________________

I love____________________________________________

Repeat that sequence every day until you run out of things to fill in those blanks!

In doing so, you are releasing pain, inviting pleasure, and sending a powerful message to the Universe that you are READY for love!

So take a few deep breaths, hug yourself for me, and let’s get you out of victim mode, and into victory mode…your Soulmate is waiting on you!

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Categories : Dating
Tags : attract a man, attract Mr. Right, attract your ideal man, confidence, dating, fall madly in love, feminine energy, happiness is attractive, Jaki Ives, Jaki Sabourin, law of attraction, life of your dreams, married, Men, relationship, self-love
Jaki Ives Jaki Sabourin on honeymoon

From Single To Married!

Posted by Jaki Sabourin 
· September 23, 2014 
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These past couple of years have been some of the most exciting and fulfilling years of my life and I wanted to share it with you because dreams do come true.

I’m not talking about magical thinking dreams where you simply wish for something, without taking action to make it happen, and expect it to show up. I’m talking about the law of manifestation and creation.

My dream was to create a whole new life. I wanted a fulfilling career, a new relationship, a new home and new empowered friends. And it’s all happening right now! I couldn’t be more grateful and more ready for this transition into my new life with my husband Michael.

Jaki and Michael

Not long ago, I MARRIED the man of my dreams and went on a delicious honeymoon to one of the most romantic places on earth, Chateau Lake Louise, BC.

Lake Louise is a glistening emerald glacier lake located in Banff National Park and is surrounded by soaring mountain peaks and the majestic Victoria Glacier. The water in this glacier lake is turquoise blue and so still you can see the reflection of the glaciers and mountains in it. It’s absolutely gorgeous and you must put it on your bucket list.

Jaki Ives Jaki Sabourin on honeymoon

It feels so good to know that I created this juicy relationship, a powerful marriage and the extraordinary life I am living. I’m taking all the credit because I did all the work. So there-I said it! Our favorite four-letter word: WORK!

I’m not going to lie to you and tell you that it was easy, but I will tell you that anyone can do it.

You can have the life, the relationship and the career you want.

You just need to understand that the law of manifestation is BE, DO, HAVE, which is that you attract what you are, not what you want. Attraction is like a magnet. You pull to you what you are. So if you are not satisfied with what you are attracting, the amazing thing is you have the power to change that.

Now what are you waiting for?

(If you are tired of waiting and are ready to attract your ideal guy, get on my calendar for a free chat! Click here)

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Categories : Create the Life You Want
Tags : about Jaki, honeymoon, Jaki Ives, Jaki Sabourin, married

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