NEWSFLASH! This is supposed to be FUN!
When you’re on the path to finding your soulmate, it’s important to remember to RELAX!
This isn’t a process you can force, and it is certainly not a process that should feel stressful or exhausting!
You want to put yourself in the best possible position to find that special someone (through things like a captivating online profile, being open to meeting new people, letting friends know you’re looking, etc.) and then just enjoy the adventure!
Even when you’re dealing with feelings of loneliness or even hopelessness, keep reminding yourself that discomfort is a vital part of growth. When you work really hard on a project, isn’t the feeling you get when you’re done that much sweeter?
So it is with finding love! This journey can be arduous and full of ups and downs but it’s those ups and downs that allow you to appreciate true lasting love once you’ve found it. I know how much more I appreciated Michael any time I’d look back on the road I traveled to find him!
Do your best to flow with the tougher times and enjoy as much as you can about the unfolding of your love journey. Use your time dating to figure out what you like (and don’t like), set boundaries that work for you, and be open to new possibilities. Each connection you make that doesn’t result in a lasting relationship brings you a step closer to finding that perfect match!
You never know how you’ll end up finding the One (and he IS out there). Embrace the struggle as something that is teaching you what you really want out of your life and your relationship! You don’t have to make everything about the NOW. Better to have something wonderful in the future than settle for “so-so” in the present! Just like the caterpillar feels no pressure to become a butterfly overnight, you should not pressure yourself to settle for anything less than the best.
Men are not attracted to Debbie-downers. The tough and lonely times are meant to be used for self-care, reflection and rejuvenation! Feel what you need to feel, but give yourself a time limit. Allow 48 hours of negativity and then get back out there!
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